This has been a stressful week.
I've been working a lot. I worked a bit over 56 hours this past week, not counting lunch and commute time. I don't want to complain about it; I am not forced to work any more than 8 hours a day, we've just been so busy that I feel as if I need to. We had one person leave our department for another job and another transfer to another department not that long ago. We also had a fairly new hire flake out on us suddenly and unexpectedly. There's one person who spent this past week out on PTO, and another who starts a week of PTO on Monday. Then we had a woman who I think is the longest-tenured member of my department (she may have been at the lab pretty much since it opened 4 or 5 years ago) get injured, she is going to be away for an unfortunately long time. So we currently have 3 new hires, and it takes a while before we allow anyone to do the work without it being 100% checked for accuracy, so they aren't yet saving us much, if any, time. I'm happy to get the overtime pay, of course, but I tend to feel personally responsible for things even when I am not, so it's stressful when I have to go home and leave a bunch of work behind needing to be done. I also tend to do a lot of different little things in my department, which can make it hard for me to get my main work done efficiently until everyone else is gone and I don't have all the distraction. I'll probably have at least another couple of weeks with the long hours, until the new hires get their feet under them enough to start saving significantly more work time than it takes in training them.
My girlfriend's son has signed up to join the Army. While military service is an honorable profession that can teach discipline, as well as provide skills and confidence to use after a person's service, I have some reservations about his suitability for military life. I did not serve myself, so I realize that my understanding of just what it will entail is limited. I don't want to get into detail about it, and I'm not disparaging his character, but he has some personality traits and quirks that I worry will not be well accepted. I hope that he is both willing and able to avoid some of the sorts of things that worry me. It's good that he's found, if not necessarily a lifelong career, at least a good starting point, assuming those issues that concern me don't cause him too much trouble. Of course, military service has some inherent dangers, so that's also a worry. And having her son finally leaving the nest, so to speak, is hard for my lady.
Lastly, and by far the biggest source of bad feelings, my lady's mother died on Monday. She was in the hospital because of an injury and was having complications. She suffered from COPD, and was a cancer survivor, so there were other health issues at play. However, she had had what was considered a successful surgery for her injury. She wasn't coming fully back from having been under sedation, but apparently after a brain scan revealed no abnormalities, it was expected that she was just slow to recover mentally, and would likely be back to herself soon. My girlfriend's brother had come down from out of state when the injury occurred, and he had been on his way back home when it started to look like their mom wouldn't survive, to give an idea of how this was surprising despite the hospitalization.
All of my working has made me feel guilty, because it keeps me away from my lady while she is grieving. She has told me repeatedly that it's fine, as she's been with her brother, her son, and her father, but I still feel badly about it.
There are going to be some fairly substantial changes coming. We are going to be moving in with her father. She has always told me that she couldn't leave this area because she wanted to be here to take care of one of her parents when the other one passed. We didn't expect it to happen this soon, but here we are. Her parents' house is quite a bit more spacious than ours, so that helps. However, we have 3 cats, 2 dogs, and a lizard here. With her son heading to the Army, he won't be able to care for any of them. Additionally, there are 2 dogs at her parents' house already. We aren't entirely certain how many animals we will reasonably be able to care for, or which will be able to get along with the others. At this point I think the hope is to keep one each of our current dogs and cats and find homes for the others. I think we'll be bringing the lizard, as well. The house isn't far from our current one, only a 10-15 minute drive, so I will be able to keep my current job without issue; I'll just need to get used to leaving slightly earlier, and I'll have to see what traffic is like from the new location.
With all of this going on, I haven't been doing a lot of posting, and probably will be very limited going forward, too. I do at least read my watched threads most nights, however, and have kept up with everyone here for the most part. You might not hear from me much, but I am lurking.