You're talking about "ultimate reconciliation" which, unfortunately, isn't a biblical doctrine. Death and hell are literal consequences for man's sinful nature and actions. God is just. He gave man a choice in the very beginning. He laid out in simple terms what was necessary for eternal life and what would happen if man disobeyed Him. Man chose the latter. So mankind was doomed to certain death until God took mercy upon him and gave him a way out. He took on a flesh body and died in our stead thus paying the penalty for sins.
So the door is open to anyone who desires eternal life in the Kingdom of God. That door is Jesus Christ. Accept Him and claim entrance or deny/reject Him and suffer the consequences. This truly is a life or death decision.
I get that the bible says that God is just over and over, but if that's the case, then what is justice?
Your first premise here is that God gave "man" a choice in the beginning and "man" chose a sinful nature, thus death and hell are the consequences for mankind. What you are stating is that an entire species is being punished up to and including the potential for eternal torture beyond imagining, for the actions of the first man, i.e. actions that nobody else among the species, other than Eve, had any chance of preventing.
The implication you're making here is that justice includes punishing people for the actions of others over which they had -no- influence. Justice includes punishing someone for the actions of someone else, if we are to believe that the biblical God is the template for justice.
So the question must be asked: Is our idea of justice skewed? Is true justice the punishment of everyone for every transgression of anyone?
More to the point of the OP, however, the question of eternal punishment must be considered. The only reasoning you've offered for why eternal punishment is the norm is that God said we either obey him or we pay the consequences. The implication this time is that hell is a just punishment because it was included in God's this-or-that. Essentially, I must assume by your reasoning that if a figure of authority includes a punishment in his ultimatum, then that punishment is automatically a just one.
What you're saying, essentially, is that the guy with the gun is the guy who decides the nature of justice. Shall I assume this to be your view on the concept?
If that's not the case, then why is an eternity of torture a just punishment for not figuring out who the real God is?
I wish to field and answer this question.
Adam was the prototype and since the prototype sinned, all the copies can't do any better than Adam.
Romans 3:9 ¶ What then? are we better than they? No, in no wise: for
we have before proved both Jews and Gentiles, that they are all under sin;
How did Paul's group prove that all were under sin?
Romans 3:10 As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:
Satan wants you to justify yourself and for you to tell yourself how good you have been but the law was added to show you that you are under sin that the promise might be given to them that believe.
Galatians 3:19 ¶ Wherefore then serveth the law?
It was added because of transgressions, till the seed should come to whom the promise was made; and it was ordained by angels in the hand of a mediator.
The law was given because of transgressions and it shows you that all are under sin.
Galatians 3:22 But
the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
There are two ways to get to heaven that don't work for us. One is to keep the whole law and no one can.
The second way is to be sinless and no one is.
In practical terms, our computer at work got a virus. Tech support looked at it and didn't clean it because time is worth money. We threw the computer out. They can't resell it because the motherboard needs to be cleaned, it needs new power supplies, it has a virus and it is two years old. No one wants it. In the real world when something doesn't work, you throw it out and get a new one because it isn't perfect. The computer didn't get a virus on its own. Someone uploaded the virus to it. Why should the computer go to the trash? Because no one wants to get infected by the virus and we have a virus called sin. And God is not going to allow sin in His house.
You've presented a lot of scripture here, but not a lot of logical answers to what I asked, and you ended with an analogy that is a poor comparison for several glaring reasons.
First point. Adam is the prototype and Adam sinned, plus all of those scriptures, and the explanation that the law being passed down to keep people from doing wrong is proof that we are all sinners. Over and over again you make the assertion that no human can help but be a sinner.
Therefore, we are sinners simply by existing. It is our very nature. Humans are literally incapable of being sinless and are literally incapable of keeping the whole law.
So if we have no power over being sinful, how is it just to punish us for being sinful?
Your prototype argument also implies that responsibility for one's sins is carried specifically by one's predecessors. How do you feel about reparations for slavery here in America? Seems to me that this theory pretty much implies that demanding retribution from the descendants of the slave owners would be the Godly thing to do. Not that it would punish them (vengeance is mine sayeth the lord), but punishment falls on those held responsible. If one can be held responsible at all for the sins of their predecessors, then wouldn't making the victims (identified by the same logic) whole also be delegated thusly?
Last, your analogy. . . .
The glaring set of differences here is that you're not all-powerful, you didn't create the computer, and you are not infallible. The God of the bible is all-powerful, he created man, and he is infallible.
That means that God had the power to make humans incapable of sin, but -chose- not to. It wasn't a mistake: He's infallible.
The closest way to parallel this with your computer analogy would be to say that you built the computer, that you purposely uploaded a virus to it, and then, tho you had the power to remove the virus, you instead threw the computer away. In God's case, however, throwing the computer away also implies subjecting a sentient being to an ETERNITY of horrible agony. In a proper analogy, you would be acting as foolishly as God, but not nearly as psychotically.
Anyway, to more directly relate this to the topic, if you built a computer and then knowingly loaded a virus onto it, how would you justify blaming the computer for its plight? And if you didn't blame the computer, how would you justify throwing the computer away (punishing it) if you were capable of fixing it? How would you define that as justice? How do you reconcile your understanding of love if -this- is the template given us by a God of infinite love? Do love and justice mean that you intentionally imbue a creature with negative attributes and then torture it if it never learns the identity of the guy to whom it owes an apology for said attributes?
I'm going to act just and loving the same way God does from here on out. When I have a kid, I'm going to have the doctor remove one of its eyes. Then I'm going to choose one specific person in the world and decree that it is to them that the child must apologize for his being half-blind. Also, I'm gonna make him guess who it is that he needs to apologize to, and if he guesses wrong and that dude never gets his apology, I'm gonna peel that kid like an onion. Real slow, and cauterize as I go, so I can make it as painful and as drawn out as I possibly can. Cuz I love him. Infinitely. And because I'm just.