Oh, I get it and I understand.
Just saying that if things actually get that messed up, I won't mind going on with being a pioneer elsewhere.
There are still places in this world where you can control your destiny if you are willing to put forth the effort.
I know of a few, not that hard to get to, and some things require more vision and a little risk to get somewhere new but that is still worth getting to without sacrificing everything in the process.
Some people wait for all their opportunities to be delivered, and as you mentioned end up with what they asked for, while others explore trying to find them, and it is as simple as that.