All of that is very sweet and noble, but again, it is pure ideology and is NOT what is actually practiced by the masses of conservatives. Instead, it consists of a pull-yourself-up-by-the-bootstraps mindset; anyone can be successful if he or she only tries; the inner-city poverty pockets made their own bed and now they can lie in it; and my favorite mantra "Don't Tread On Me" which sums up TODAY'S overall conservative mentality quite well. Conservatives have yet to prove to me that, left to their own private charities, they are any better at taking care of the truly helpless, and they most certainly do NOT allow the same "opportunities" for the downtrodden to make it on their own. I don't single out YOU, personally, and I do know that there are millions of truly compassionate conservatives, but as a general rule, the new-new conservatives are all for themselves and nobody else. I got mine, so screw the rest of you. Don't tread on me.
Well that would probably depend on how you define ideology. I define ideology as the basic concepts, principles, and/or values held by an individual, group, or society - the social contract - or - the core beliefs that form the basis of a sociopolitical system.
If that is how you define it then yes, my view of modern American conservatism is based on ideology shared by all or most who consider themselves American conservatives as the term is defined and understood by them now.
If you define it as misconceptions and wrong headed dogma, then you described your own ideology when you so badly misrepresent what modern American conservatism is all about.
For instance, conservatives know that there are people who need a hand up which is why it is almost exclusively conservatives, more especially religious conservative, who establish and volunteer at homeless shelters, soup kitchens, orphanages and homes for troubled children, halfway houses, thrift shops, leper colonies, prison ministries, tutoring and mentoring programs, latchkey programs, etc. etc. etc.
The difference is that liberals look to the government to do things like that and then the liberals don't have to get their hands dirty. They don't seem to care whether anybody's situation ever improves so long as they can salve their conscience by throwing other people's money at the problem.
Conservatives see it as their personal responsibility and, except in rare cases, not the responsibility of government. Conservatives think it is wrong to help people stay in poverty or other unpleasant situation, but that the focus should be on taking care of their basic needs to live but otherwise make getting out of poverty or other unpleasant situation much more attractive than staying in it.
Liberals seem to think good intentions are sufficient to do something. Conservatives know the best intentions can sometimes be disastrous and that the goal should always be results, not just feeling smug or righteous that you meant well.
Liberals see people of color, the poor, the errant, the disadvantaged, and even sometimes the criminal as victims of society and the responsibility of government to make their lives better. Conservatives see them as people with abilities and hopes and dreams and possibilities, and the kindest thing you can do for them is to show them how to make good choices that give them the best possible shot at achieving what they want out of life.
In the broadest term, liberals too often punish or penalize success and reward underachievement or failure. Conservatives think success is a worthy goal and all people should be encouraged to achieve it. That won't happen with many folks if we make it profitable or with little or no consequence for them to fail.
In short Conservatives, on average, more especially religious conservatives, have been more generous with their time, talents, and fortunes than have liberals, on average. Conservatism is not synonymous with lack of compassion or hard heartedness or unwillingness to give folks a hand up. They just disagree with most liberals in the best way to do that.