The bigots is you and those who support the gay mafia. I am all for live and let live but you are not....
No, you're in favour of allowing people to discriminate against gays, and refuse them service. That's not a "live and let live" position.
Live and let live would provide services to gays, without comment because it's none of your business who someone wants to marry. If they have a marriage license, you don't get to refuse service because you think they're sinners. You let them live their lives and they give you their money and let you go on serving the public.
It is only when you elect to judge gays based on your beliefs, that they will retaliate against that injustice.