Book of Jeremiah
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Welcome to the USMB singles bar. Pull up a stool, order a drink and tell us about yourself.
must be current single or anytime in life single?
Either way. Doesn't matter. If married people have views on single life I would love to hear them.
I will tell you. You can make me a hot chocolate with some marshmellows as it is cold here too......
I was single for most of my life and enjoyed it immensely. I had no plans of being married, never wanted to be married although most of my unmarried girlfriends felt they were half a person until they met the other half who would complete them. I did not and do not view marriage that way. I find that those who do end up disappointed. Eventually I met someone who thought the same way I did and as I felt my life I decided to marry.
To be honest I am content either way. I do not find that marriage has any greater value than not being married when it comes to quality of life. As a Christian I believe one can focus more on God if they are not married. If you are married you have to consider everything the other person is doing and that includes going places you would rather not go, doing things you may not do otherwise do, etc. but then again they are in the same situation. (when married both are expected to attend weddings, parties, etc. ) I think if you are content not being married then don't get married, John. For those who are married I say ....bloom where you are planted. Your happiness does not depend on anyone else but yourself. My 2 cents. - Jeri
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