I have told this story before, but I guess it is worth repeating....
Two of my very best employees, who were sent to Ft Lauderdale to close one of our Jordan Marsh stores there which was going to turn in to a Burdines because they had bought us out....I was a Merchandise Manager for the Department Store's Shoe Depts and since we were a leased company, part of INTERCO...International Shoe Corporation who in addition to having the Leases in a handful of major department stores Shoe departments, also owned other companies like London Fog Raincoats and Florsheim and Converse shoes at the time...Federated Stores bought Allied Stores....
Anyway, Scott was a Shoe Buyer, and Jerry was my Regional Shoe Manager, and was the link between the Buyers and our Stores and shoe department managers and their visual displays etc.
I sent Scott to FTLauderdale region...actually the Broward Mall Jordan Marsh/MaasBrothers store to pack up our merchandise left after all the going out of business clearnace...And I sent Jerry there too...
These two guys had known eachother from work for over 3 years and were best buddies even though scott lived in Tampa and Jerry lived in Boca Raton, scott was around 28 at the time and Jerry was older, maybe 36 or so....
Well they spent 12 hours at the store packing up, got there at 6am and quit at around 6 pm, and afterwards went to a local bar for happy hour and put down, one too many.
They left the bar, Scott was driving and when they got to Oakland Blvd in Ft Laud, Scott lost control of his car and hit a telephone pole. Scott had his seatbelt on and a new car with an airbag, Jerry was not wearing his seatbelt and got thrown through the opened sunroof, and was decapitated with little attached. It was the Law to wear your seat belt in florida, but even when I came in to town to visit the Stores with Jerry, he insisted, and I mean insisted that he not wear his seat belt....he had been in a car accident when he was younger, where his friend was wearing the seatbelt and he was not and they went over a ledge in to the water and jerry was the passanger and got out, but his friend with the seatbelt DID NOT or something like that... and died, so he just NEVER wore a seat belt.
Either way, both Scott and Jerry were drunk as a skunk...
Scott found Jerry on the ground without his head attached and held him in his arms until the cops got there, sobbing profusely...cops said he was uncontrollably shaking and would not let him go, even when the ambulance got there....
Anyway, this happened earlier that evening, but as an executive with the Company, at around 3am the phone rang which was on Matt's side of the bed...we both sat up and thought, WTF? And BEFORE MATT answered the phone, I SAID, Jerry is DEAD and low and behold it was our Comptroller of the Company, notifying me of the car accident with Scott and Jerry and that Jerry was dead.
This was my second experience where for some strange reason, I knew someone was dead, before I was actually told they were dead...and 2 more times afterwards, so far!

.... it is spooky!
Well, To get to the point of my story...Scott was my best and most responsible Buyer, Jerry was my best Divisional, (I had 2, one for east coast stores, one for west coast stores), I truly loved them both, as workers and as people. Jerry had a 16 yr old daughter who he loved dearly, but was with his exwife up north, along with his parents up north left behind....They knew that Scott did not mean to kill Jerry, they knew he was one of Jerry's best buddies...they knew he didn't ever want to wear his seat belt, they knew he too was drunk along with scott....and they were Catholic....Christians to the bottom of their soul I suppose, and they contacted the ft laud police and told them they did NOT want scott to go to jail for Manslaughter..... And honestly, I didn't either....it would been a waste of a very good person who was very very very stupid...
Jerry's family followed through and wrote a letter saying such...
Scott got a lawyer, that he paid $5k to, who got him off of having to do any jail time but he did have some kind of restrictions or probation....he could only use his car to go back and forth to work for some time...can't remember how long...
We had given him about a month off and i spoke to him several times on the phone right after the accident but before he had to be back at work, and not once was he not sobbing with me....and I sobbed back, just could help it...i could feel his sorrow, along with my own.
Anyway, when he got back to work, it was hard...every time i looked at him, I thought of Jerry and every time he looked at me...I could see he thought of Jerry, because i could see his eyes well...it took months before things were somewhat normal for him and by then we had boxed up our last store that we were closing and the company shut it's doors...Dillard's came in to the region and opened a Buyers Office nearby in St pete and I interviewed there about 2 weeks before we shut our doors and Scott interviewed for a Buyer's position as well...I got the job, he did not get his...so he moved back to ft laud, I kept in touch for a while and then lost touch when I moved up to massachusetts.
I guess what I am trying to say, is that Scott was punished enough, by killing Jerry...and even Jerry's family knew it, and I would bet, that if I could find scott today, that his eyes would still well up, thinking about what he did...killing another human being by accident, is a horrible thing to live with...I am certain, that Ted Kennedy felt the same and Mary Jo's family forgave him....at least I hope so.
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