I'm actually curious about modesty. I consider myself to be a modest dresser: skirts/dresses below the knee (occasionally at the knee), no cleavage, nothing too tight, etc. By Western standards, that's modest and age appropriate (47). I live in a very hot, humid climate, though, so I will go sleeveless and with open toed shoes/sandals with painted toenails. I've never covered my hair. It is generally pulled back in a ponytail.
Where would I fall on the modesty scale for a Muslim in the West, not necessarily culturally, but religiously? I've seen Muslim women in westernish clothes with a pretty scarf mostly covering their hair, but I don't know if they were religious or not.
Honestly, something on my head in this sweltering heat would be brutal (1st world problems, right?). I dont know if i could do it. I rarely let my own hair fall around my neck, much less an additional layer. I would have to shave my head. If one's head is shaved, does it need to be covered?