There's so much nonsense to unpack here that it is difficult to know where to even start. You make a lot of extraoridnary claims and without any elaboration, you just jump to the next one.
How exactly is any of this moralizing emotional rant connected to the introduction of the pill?
Sexual behavior and psychology is drastically different between men and women.
1. Men can generally have many sexual partners and view it as just an act, and hold no emotion. This is even just after so long of being the one invading, not being the invadee in the act.
2. Women generally are far more emotionally impacted from the intimacy of sex, and develop connection and imprinting naturally. They are being heavily coerced to suppress this by our feminist society, but it clearly manifests on the back end, as women who have lots of sexual partners are often the most messed-up women with involvement in prostitution, drugs, or psychological problems. Hell, women still shame each other by calling each other "whores", suggesting that sexual promiscuity is a bad thing.. and for women it is.
3. The pill introduced a method for women to avoid the checks and balances that their brain/psychology needed that kept them based. They were selective of the men they had sex with, they made them earn it. This then checked men right back, forcing men to act right to earn sex. Now, women are just giving it up to mostly the higher value men, but cannot outrun their frustrations in not finding commitment/emotional support. Women having to consider the high risk of being pregnant was good for society, and good for them.
Women and men are not at all "completely different". That is a ridiculous claim no psychologist or social scientists would agree on. Because, truth is that cognitive and psychological differences between the genders are near to zero, if not exactly that.
Men and women's differences clearly manifest:
1. Men can tolerate longer, more dangerous, more physical jobs. Women prefer less hours, safer jobs.
2. Men are more likely to be physically aggressive, women are more likely to be manipulative and coercive
3. Men are more open to sex with less attractive partners, women are far more selective
4. Men are more independent, women are more communal (which is why communists so support feminism)
5. Men are more functional/logical, and can build societies, invent, innovate, and protect. Matriarchies don't exist for a reason, they wouldn't be able to fix their problems or protect their borders without the help of men.
6. Men are more likely to be rational, women will accept irrationality in order to be nice.. like with the trans movement or calling obese women "beautiful"
It's endless.
Increase in depression among the young is worrying, but it is not like it is only seen in women. Quite the contrary actually.
It's highest in women who have hit the wall. Young women get attention, so they get their fulfillment of attention. That's when they need to secure a guy they want, but our feminist sisterhood and society tells them to kick the can down the road until their 30's... and by then they have tons of emotional baggage, kids, developed masculine traits, disagreeableness, etc. that men don't really seek out. And men generally don't care about a woman's career or money at all.
No one should ever settle for "average".
Average people should date and marry average people. Most people are average. You're average, unless you have some photo shoot or modeling contract I don't know about.
You're doing incel marxist economics at this point, lmao.
That's just you throwing a tantrum. Address the points if they're so wrong.