Especially to women?
I mean, women seem to be doing fine. Outperforming men in both education and career.
Yes, but yet that doesn't make them happier, or fulfill them like it does for men. Women's reported happiness is still lower, and that's likely because they are avoiding their calling to nurture, sacrifice, support via biological programming. Of course, there's exceptions to the rule, but in general, women who are married and have children are the happiest, especially those who are Christian. You can get frustrated with that, but it's been ironclad, and it makes complete sense.
We don't see women becoming bitter incel losers.
The two groups are equal to each other:
There's indeed a group of bitter young men who have failed to launch and use the internet to vent, troll, etc. and are mad they can't find a woman.
There's also a group of bitter 33-35+ women who have trained themselves to be masculine disagreeable forces and cannot find a man they desire.
Both actively participate in traits that makes them less attractive to the opposite sex. The difference is, we shame men for it while we celebrate women for it.. thus, we encourage bitter single women who aggressively seek each other for group support and comfort, and have large influence in entertainment, media, etc.
I mean, Men generally aren't turned on by a woman because she has a career or money, but women are certainly attracted to men for those reasons, and it makes complete sense based on their evolutionary behavioral psychological differences.