You are correct about being pressured into marriage. However, marriage should be talked about and encouraged, especially when people are going to be sexually active. While children with one parent, mom or dad, can have success, the statistics don't bear this out. Children brought up without a father in the home have a higher potential to get into criminal trouble. With one parent, they tend to do more poorly in school as well. Their intelligence IQ can also be stunted. Therefore, the religious tenant of promoting marriage is better for children and society in general. I know there are bumpkins in here that will try to point out there are children who have done well in single parent homes. For those bumpkins, those are not the majority of children. We see this in the Black communities as a major cause of crime, gang activity, poor education, below learning levels and thus lower IQ's as well. Society has to get back to supporting the marriage program by getting back to having faith in God who promotes marriage.