I did no such thing. I am a product of the public schools. My kids and most of the children of my other relatives, friends, and neighbors as well as most of the hundred or so regular kids in our church youth group were or are public schooled. And the vast majority of them have been and/or are just fine.
I did not even insinuate that all or most public schooled kids are socially inept or poorly socialized or anything like that. What I did say is in comparing the homeschooled kids with their public schooled counterparts, I find the homeschooled kids, pretty much all of them, to be extremely confident, well socialized, and socially adept while the public schooled kids, on average--not all but on average--tend to be less so. In other words, if I do observe a child who appears to be poorly socialized or less socially adept, that child is far more likely to be from the public schooled group than the homeschooled group.
My argument has been primarily to counter the very erroneous arguments by several on this thread that the homeschooled kids are disadvantaged in that regard. They aren't.
Excellent observation. They're just repeating old outdated arguments. There is absolutely no evidence supporting the argument that Public School children are more socially advanced than Homeschooled children. In fact, one could argue that Public-Schooled children are a real mess these days. So it really is an outdated argument.
The thing is, the homeschooled kids are not as subject to the social cliques, the real social hostility and sometimes cruelty that is too often prevalent among school kids and evident on message boards such as this, the bullying, the inept or disinterested teachers, and they aren't held back by the slowest in the class. None of that stuff is good for kids and it is absolutely not necessary in order to grow up to be a savvy, well adjusted adult.
And because homeschooled kids are also not raised in a cocoon, and do interact with others in many different settings, they are not ignorant or unexposed to the fact everything and everybody isn't always in a good place, that there are dangers and difficulties to overcome, and there are unpleasant, disagreeable people to cope with. But the fact that such is not the normal, every day environment for them I count as a very good thing.