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In other words, WHAT ABOUT the stranger, not a family member...because as the Bible states, even murderers love their own mom? Can you treat others, the stranger, in the same loving manner as your niece, if they steal? Or the gay man....can you treat him in the same loving manner as you treat your niece when she sinned?
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This is a jackass of a question, do you love strangers just as much and or even more than your own family? One can respect strangers and treat them as human beings without disrespecting them, but accepting and loving the things that they do wrong is not needed to accomplish this. What does a murderer loving his mother have to do with this? Thats non-sequitir. You people have some kind of twisted view on what love is, when one disciplines their children for doing something wrong its done out of love[unless you're just as abusive person, the exception] and to prevent them from doing self destructive acts, by loving their sins and not admonishing them you're making it worse.
Bottom line, it is possible and its reality that people love people without loving the wrong, sick and sinful things that people do, God set the perfect example, he loves all humans but doesn't love the murder, rape, thieving, adultery, lying and homosexuality that humans do.