but after people reject Him long enough, I'm pretty sure his patience runs out, too.
ahhh...one more thing... to think about...
This sounds like it goes against God... all loving, forgiving...
BTW - I wasn't allways a Christian - so If I died before salvation I guess to bad for me...?
God is all-loving. Because someone goes to Hell does not mean He doesn't love them anymore, but they chose not to serve Him, after He had given them many opportunities. He is all forgiving, but if you don't ask for forgiveness and accept Christ into your heart, then you're not just gonna forgiven. Because it goes something like this ...."For anyone who asks....receives..."
People get a life-time to choose whether or not they truly want to be sold out to God and have a relationship with Him, or if they want to live for their own pleasure and however they please. There are consequences at the end of your days, and that's how it goes.
If you can't live for Him, by the choice of your own free will , right now, then the only reason you would choose Him once you get to Hell, is because you're in torment, and of course you want God then, but you didn't before you were there. So now your choice to want God is probably based on the torment and pain you feel, not because it is...or ever was... truly desired.
Therefore, I don't think it's so unrealistic to think of people forever in a place where there is no God and never will be. Rejecting God has serious and eternal consequences. His grace is sufficient, but after people reject Him long enough, I'm pretty sure his patience runs out, too.
Please review the final line in my signature. In my (possibly ignorant) opinion, as an agnotic, it seems to me if you're correct Hell will need to be a very very very large place. Heaven on the other hand might fit on the head of a pin.
The final line in your signature is interesting. I'm not sure if you're talking about Christian people in general, or you're putting that in a category of all religions, because more or less, they all use the term "God".
However, back to the original subject.
Like I said in my OP, God's grace is sufficient, and I am under the impression that He has a lot of patience and mercy, but people have a choice about whether to choose Him or not. I also believe that it's very possible that more people get into Heaven than we even know.
But I'm just saying, if at the end of your life, you have chosen not to believe in God and He hasn't become real to you, then Hell is possibly the place to go. For good. I don't claim to know everything about God, or be some expert on how He works, but that's just how I think it would/and does happen, and I could be wrong...I'm open to being wrong.
And it says "whosoever believes on Him shall have everlasting life". Many people don't believe in Him, and so they never come to have a personal relationship with Him. It's not about religion, how much you go to church, or anything along those lines, it's relationship and acceptance of who He is and what He did.
So I make Heaven sound harder to get to, and it may just possibly be, because following a life of the flesh and living by that is so much easier than walking by the Spirit and laying down fleshly things(Romans 8), but in the end, Yahweh(God), is the ultimate judge, and only He truly knows the heart of each and every individual He created.