Girlfriend wants to move in

[shockedcanadian]

If you say no you are more apt to be a fundamental investor. If you say yes you are more apt to walk into a casino, head to the roulette table and put your lifes savings on red.

 

[Lord-Humungus]

It’s your life but that to me is a huge red flag. If you say let’s wait and she calls the relationship off then you dodged a bullet. If she is still willing to continue the relationship then after a few months you may want to give it a try.

 

[luiza]

Why on earth are you baring your soul to a bunch of old people whom you almost certainly do not even know , and are largely not the full ticket , as you plainly see every day that you are here ?
Is this an American "thing" ?

 

[Fueri]

1 month from now

 

[Blaster]

Well hussies like unmanly creeps that go for the younger ones and don't care about marriage.
I can't tell who is getting the worse of the deal, but I think it is her.

She likes the sex and isn't ready for marriage either. It is a win, win, situation.

 

[HeyNorm]

Don’t listen to these people!

Do it. Do it today. Hell move her stuff yourself!

(Of course I want the rest of you’re life to be a living hell, so consider that when taking my advise)

 

[Blaster]

Why on earth are you baring your soul to a bunch of old people whom you almost certainly do not even know , and are largely not the full ticket , as you plainly see every day that you are here ?
Is this an American "thing" ?

This is a message board and I get bored constantly talking politics with you old coots. I thought this would be an interesting discussion.

 

[The Duke]

She likes the sex and isn't ready for marriage either. It is a win, win, situation.

Once her clothes have been in your closet for a week she can get half.

 

[Blaster]

Don’t listen to these people!

Do it. Do it today. Hell move her stuff yourself!

(Of course I want the rest of you’re life to be a living hell, so consider that when taking my advise)

I'm leaning toward not having her move in with me just in case I fall for a different woman.

 

[Foxfyre]

My girlfriend of one month wants to move in with me but I'm not sure I want her to. She is 8 years younger, very pretty and has a good job. We have a lot of common interests with the exception of musical taste. She is an avid Taylor Swift fan and is always playing her music while I prefer classic rock.

Generally your first instinct is the correct one. Tell her that is an option maybe for later on but right now let's be sure we will like each other so much after awhile longer.

Edit: Your Post #29 tells me that no no no under absolutely no circumstances should this woman trust you enough to move in with you. Seriously, if you're thinking like that you seriously should not move in together.

 

[1srelluc]

OP must be Dutch.

 

[Rawley]

My girlfriend of one month wants to move in with me but I'm not sure I want her to. She is 8 years younger, very pretty and has a good job. We have a lot of common interests with the exception of musical taste. She is an avid Taylor Swift fan and is always playing her music while I prefer classic rock.

One month? NFW

 

[shockedcanadian]

This is a message board and I get bored constantly talking politics with you old coots. I thought this would be an interesting discussion.

Don't listen to him, he is an aent provoateur. Realy, who should heed advice of such people lacking integrity and character.

 

[Tunafish]

I'm leaning toward not having her move in with me just in case I fall for a different woman.

Now we are talking!
Remember the three F rule
and remember the true worth of a woman.
Get a pre-nup and make sure that you specify they are not eligible to vote once married.

 

[Tunafish]

Don't listen to him, he is an aent provoateur. Realy, who should heed advice of such people lacking integrity and character.

WERE YOU NOT THE ONE ABUSED BY YOUR WIFE?

 

[shockedcanadian]

WERE YOU NOT THE ONE ABUSED BY YOUR WIFE?

Yes. What of it?

 

[John Edgar Slow Horses]

My girlfriend of one month wants to move in with me but I'm not sure I want her to. She is 8 years younger, very pretty and has a good job. We have a lot of common interests with the exception of musical taste. She is an avid Taylor Swift fan and is always playing her music while I prefer classic rock.

Being a swiftie should not be a deal breaker for her, but musical boundaries must be set.

She may be using you to write her own future break up song.

 

[Arlette]

Tuna is smelling your rotten clown canal.
Bleach it!

You want to date Blaster. You think about him a LOT

 

[whitehall]

If you base your relationships on tastes in music you are not ready to move in with anyone until you grow up a little more.

 

[Tunafish]

Yes. What of it?

You have no business giving out advice. You are damaged goods