Children are the result of "parents". What two people do to their bodies, can and does affect their children. People have "free will". If the Lord goes around stopping those that make bad decisions, free will is useless (people would not learn).
In some cases those that are sick, diseased, tortured are touching other people that the Lord is trying to reach. Their pain makes those around them "grow" as "humans". It does not seem fair to us that the Lord does not stop that, but we do not know how much the Lord is actually helping them: reducing the pain that they would feel, helping keep their spirits high, keeping them from sinking into self-pity. It is possible that when the Lord knows the pain of watching loved ones suffer is unbearable, He takes them to a much better place where they will never have to live thru the suffering and pain they would have had to endure as teenagers or adults. Once they are in His presence, all pain is forgotten.
While "His" hope would be that we all would just know of His love and His wish for us to do well, He has to let us do it for ourselves. To choose Him, takes faith.
LOL, so let me get this straight. Innocent children who have never harmed anyone are being killed by God because of something that their parents did? This is what you are claiming? That all children who die of cancer because their parents are evil? So God punishes the innocent due to the action of the evil? Doesn't seem like a person I'd vote for, for Mayor let alone pray to as my "god".
I never said they "were killed by G*d". I said that if someone poisons their body (knowingly or not), it will be passed to their children. Have you ever seen "crack babies"? That was not G*d. That was uncaring parents. I did not say the parents were "evil". I said the children live with the parents' choices.
People were given the ability to reason, as a gift from G*d. It is also called "free will". Cancer is tricky, it can be hereditary, caused by environment, and can be manipulated thru diet (for progressing or retracting). To declare the each and every case "is caused by G*d" is extreme denial of a person's choices.
I know of no case of cancer where the patient claimed that the Lord "gave it to them". I do know of people that had cancer that claimed the Lord "gave them the strength to deal with it" physically, emotionally, and spiritually, and in some cases, cured it.
I wonder about your bitterness. If you are so willing to blame the Lord for all the terrible things, are you willing to give Him praise for all the good things in the world: a child's smile, a beautiful sky, scenery, having something you were looking for placed where you happened to be, not necessarily looking there, love, compassion, generosity, kindess and helping others?
I am sorry that you can not praise the Lord. Are you grateful for anything?