Although, I believe that some of these churches go too far when trying to convince the non-Christians that they need Jesus, I see a vast difference between their motives/methods when compared to Islam.
Non Muslims are actually despised, and often killed/tortured, nowadays if they don't bow their knees and convert to Islam.
On the other hand, Christians are labeled "haters" because they believe and communicate to non-Christians that they are going to an eternal hell after physical, earthly death,
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Being informed that you are going to hell, and that you need to do something about it, doesn't sound like a hateful message. Yes, it's an uncomfortable message, but where's the hate? Sound like most Christian's alleged hate speech is actually a life jacket or life saver being thrown over board to a drowning individual/individuals and is being interpretted otherwise. You'd think that the "your lost" mantra is actually a 50 caliber machine gone being sprayed at these folks.
Whether one wants to believe that their lost or not is up themselves to decide, but to interpret the messenger as a hater, is really a stretch.
Is it interpretted as hate, because it shakes-up one's comfort zone or personal self-made philosophy of life? Is it interpretted as hate, because it demands accountability for one's life's choices?
Is it interpretted as hate, because it is personally embarrassing to be forced to do some introspection of one's motives, and the impacts of those motives on others throughout one's life?
These Christians can be annoying. I agree. Nearly 2,000 years ago when the early Christian church started to grow and spread, these Jesus folks were "annoying" to the Romans, Corinthians, Galatians, Phillipians, Thessolonians, Ephesians and of course the Jews. These annoyed folks were gentiles and Jews. Jesus annoyed many...i.e. the Cross.........His Crucifixion......
If Jesus were to show up on planet earth in 2006, would He approach a religious group from the Middle East, or India, or the Orient, and start telling them they were going to hell. I don't think so, based on the N.Testament writings of His life. I think that He would desire that they come to the realization that He was the only way to God, but His means of doing it would be by initially getting to know them in bonafide friendship and then gradually introducing them to the gospel as they began to respect and trust Him.
Remember how Jesus upset the Jewish religious teachers and scribes of the day by anouncing in front of the multitudes as He was passing through a region, that He was planning to dine at Zacheus's house?
Zacheus's was a rich but despised Jewish tax collector. He infact was up in a tree trying to get a better view of this "Jesus" man who was making headlines in Israel. Out of the "blue", Jesus looks up at Zacheus, ands says, I'm dining with you, at your house.
What an insult this was to the "upity" religious teachers of the time. To dine at this person's house was to dine with a "low life"; a semi-traitor of the Jews who worked for the Romans, and collected taxes from His fellow Jews. This man was not considered religious. This fomented anger and hatred towards Jesus.
Who knows what went on in that house that night as Jesus dined. Maybe there was a lot of drinking, cussing and dancing girls. Maybe there was things going on in Zacheus's house that would have embarrassed most Christians.
Bottom line...........Jesus didn't go to Zacheus's house to judge Zacheus's life.........He went there to save and to heal lives.............He went there with the love of God. A love of lost humanity. Zacheus didn't live by pretense, but just lived. Zacheus knew that his life wasn't right with his creator, and from all accounts was a most humble and gracious host to Jesus. In fact, it is recorded that "salvation" came to the house of Zacheus that day!
I would imagine that Zacheus, though wealthy, probably gave Jesus a sitting place at the head of the table at his home. This was a far stretch from the way Jesus was treated in the homes of most of the Jewish religious leaders of that day.
How do you soften and prepare a heart to receive the "truth" about God? Certainly, not by telling them how bad they are, but by honestly and truthfull communicating to them that you genuinely have love and compassion for them as fellow human beings. You don't see your Chrisitan/self, as better than them, but you do see yourself as being safe and secure in God's hands, yet sadly see others metaphorically looking in from the outside. i.e. not safe and secure for eternity.
True Christian conversion is typified by compassion for the lost; a desire to invite them in from the rain, so-to-speak.
You don't attract bee's without something sweet. Fly swatters might get their attention, but in most cases they will avoid the swatter for safer or friendlier places. Honey does a great job of attracting bee's.
The duty/responsiblity of true converted-to-Jesus folks is to allow the new life Christ to flow through their own lives and be witnessed by the "lost".
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That church may have meant well, but their methods were shallow, and very insensitive, if they were basically confrontive with the Sikh folks. That's not Christ's life being conveyed so-to-speak through human vessels. That's just plain carnal, and very unbiblical if Jesus is the example to be followed.
Christians can trully pull these kinds of stunts, but it only happens when they are not living a surrendered life toward God. Good old "self" or the "Flesh" is heavily dealt-with by the Apostle Paul in many of his Epistles. The self-life or the "flesh" or carnal life is still alive and kicking in Christians when they refuse to humble themselves before the very one that has saved their life. Even though one is converted, doesn't mean that their lives immediately, reflect the life and love of Jesus. There is still a responsiblity of the Christian to surrender their wants, ways, and desires to a God, on a daily basis throughout their earthly lives. Even the great Apostle, Peter was reprimanded by the Apostle Paul, for being a genuine hypocrite when it came to his/Peter's early dealing with the Jews and gentiles. Remember that this Peter was the one that had denied Jesus not just once but three times, yet he/Peter was a vessel of great power after Jesus's ressurrection during Pentacost. Peter as well as the other Apostles did do wrong things at times, but learned to contritely repent, and except Christ's forgiveness and continued again in their earthly ministry of the gospel.
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On a similar note: That alleged Christian church that protested at G.I. funerals, also didn't represent true Christian love, and the true life of Christ being conveyed to mankind.
If Jesus had been at any of those funerals, He would have been embracing the loved-ones of the deceased soldier and crying right along with them.
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Love, melts nearly all hardened walls.......Love, also must be assertive/tough, and convey strength and steadfastness too in the face of opposition/defiance.
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As Paul said so elquently, "love", must undergird every thing that exudes from a Christian. Without "love", Paul said, we, Christians are like empty, gonging bells. In other words, we portray a shallow personality/existence to others and actually are very annoying. We lack total depth of personality, and respect towards others, and deservedly-so.