That's strange. You want Jews to DUMP the Hebrew word goy and accept some SKETCHY LATIN word that has been used by the CHURCH since 1400s?
"one who is not a Jew," c. 1400; earlier "one who is not a Christian, a pagan" (late… See origin and meaning of gentile.
www.etymonline.com
Got a lot of mileage out of that one didn't you? First it meant "not a Christian, a PAGAN" BEFORE IT MEANT "not a Jew"? But here's the kicker. CHRISTIANS used "gentile" to TRANSLATE THE Hebrew "goy" meaning "nations" into several CHRISTIAN bible versions. How sweet of you..
Must NOT have been derogatory to St. Jerome who WROTE the Catholic Church version.
How rich is that? Suggesting we use a substitute for the ACTUAL Hebrew which originates with meaning for "pagans" and "heathens"..

That'll fix disputes over mis-use of words fer' sure.....
You know what? Forget it.
We are not going to agree on this, and you ignored practically everything I posted.
Simply put, you never answered the question, would your ex-wife use those words in front of the target audience? If you had a daughter that wasn't raised Jewish, would you want Jewish men to refer to her as shiksas?
You have to equivocate in order to justify your position, which? Is in reality, untenable.
On the one hand? You admit, the root of the word shiskas is largely regarded by some, as absolute deplorable and depraved, and very condescending in its etymology, but your defense? It has more modern connotations in both art and literature for those who typically use it, so if it offends some? They should get over it.
. . . OTH?
While it certainly may be the case, that the word, "Goy," is a very offensive word for very large swaths of the population? Since its etymology has some rather innocuous connotations? Well, it should be just fine. The Latin word Gentile is not as good, even though it is far less offense to everyone?
I mean, hell, if that is the reasoning, if we go back to the Latin roots for justification, for both the word negro and n1gger, the etymology of both, go back to the Latin word for black, which is nigrum, so, using your logic, it does not matter if the intent of users on this forum, or even bothering with Zone 1, both words should be allowed.
It all only means. . . "black."
The feelings of listeners or readers, does not matter, nor does the intent of writers or speakers, or the modern meanings of word's impact on people, only the ancient origin of the words themselves.
The point is, modern usage is different than etymology.
Very first TOP VOTED user definition, from across the internet;
"1. A Hebrew word used in the Jewish Scriptures (a.k.a. the Old Testament). The word means "nation," and is always used within these scriptures to refer to the nations of the world. Significantly, within the Old Testament, Judah (the Jewish nation) itself is called a "goy."
2. In the Old Testament, the Jews were called to be a nation separate from the other nations, which were all Pagan. And so, colloquially, all non-Jewish nations came to be called "goyim" as in "the nations" from which the God of the Old Testament had called upon the Jews to separate themselves.
3. A word used by some Jews to refer to Gentiles (non-Jews). The word can have derogatory connotations, such as the word "black" when used to refer to a persons of African descent. It can be neutral or negative depending on the context and the intent of the speaker."
1. A Hebrew word used in the Jewish Scriptures (a.k.a. the Old Testament). The word means "nation," and is always used within these scriptures to refer to the nations of the world. Significantly, within the Old Testament, Judah (the Jewish nation) itself is called a "goy." 2. In the Old...
www.urbandictionary.com
My whole point of this bone I am picking, from the start, is context is everything. Very intelligent folks, are using the letter of the rules, and certain words, to obviously get around the spirit of the rules, and IMO? It cheapens the whole objective of the sub-forum, makes a mockery of it.
I have posted evidence that there are large segments of the population that feel this way, so even if YOU don't agree, it does not matter. It is still objectively factual true, and there isn't anything you can do to change reality. Anymore than we can change the reality of implicit bias, that affects our minority members, and haunts them, every single day of their lives.