Tresha91203
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"it allows any man who says he feels like a woman to do so, including non transgendered there for nefarious purposes."
the real problem is when a hetero poser walks into the ladies room because they feel like being nefarious.
the law does not "allow" nefarious behavior in public restrooms, it just looks beyond dress to behavior.
when someone gets harassed or treated like a criminal just because they LOOK different, that's hysteria...
the city of charlotte passed a simple local ordinance to protect trans citizens from that treatment ^
the response was all sorts of fantasy how hetero men can now suddenly pretend to be women too.
fact is, nefarious men will be nefarious one way or another without much regard for any laws.
nothing was ever stopping those with a penchant to be nefarious posers from being nefarious posers.
there is no legitimate justification to block anti-discrimination statutes in order to stop posers.
the way to tell the difference between nefarious posers and legit trans is their actual behavior.
when hetero men commit crimes in the bathroom they get held accountable just the same as ever.
including men who would harass young boys in the men's room...
The city of charlotte was having no problems with the status quo. It was a nonproblem.
The wording of the law was broad and vague and would allow men into the ladies' room on an honor system. Women would have no recourse when a nontransgendered male is in the ladies' room. Since there was not a problem with the status quo (trans were not being harrassed or assaulted in the ladies' room), there was no compelling interest.
It was a feel good law. Somehow, we don't care if a state clearly doesn't feel good about the law. Chaz Bono was not being run out of the men's room and Rue Paul was not being run out of the ladies' room.
We know a drag queen or transgendered when we see them, but there was no uproar. It was not an issue. We would object to a nontransgendered though, but you'd take that away from us. Why?
We were policing just fine before the law and transgendereds used the potty of their choice without issue.
It comes across like an FU to people who were showing no disrespect.
It also removes the defense of calling cops when a nontransgendered is creeping people out in the toilet.
Now, we can't question him without being demonized and perhaps sued.
So, yes, normal people are going to resist, not just "phobics" and bigots.
i understand your points but i disagree with some of your assumptions... namely, that there was never any problem for trans people... just because you personally never encountered a problem, you assume none ever existed. also, you claim victims would have no recourse when there would actually be recourse if there was an offense in behavior, beyond being only an "objection" based on the way someone looks or makes you feel when you see them. reality is, the honor system and policing remain unchanged by a simple anti discrimination statute. so why should so-called 'normal people' object to a default status quo that respects the public accommodation of all citizens...?
If there were issues, we would have heard them. They would be front and center right now. Do you disagree? Status quo is that you go get a cop when a man is creeping you out in the ladies' room. That is the protection. It was not abused to kick TG's out of their preferred potty. The new law says that man has a right to be there as long as he says he feels like a woman. He does not have to present as a woman, be on hormones or be under a doctor's care. In this climate, we all know a woman complaining about a man in her restroom will be labeled intolerant, phobic and bigotted. She may well even be sued. Do you disagree?
If we were all live and let live, which we were, why the needless law with no qualifications that can be challenged? TG's have been perfectly safe in the ladies' room. Why would you jeapordize their safety just to say FU to women who have been very tolerant and accommodating?
Predatory men, like the ones who target TG's in the men's room, will be able to enter the ladies' room without being challenged. Where is the logic in that? TG's will be at risk, too. Most of us know TG's are safer in the ladies' room. We make no fuss when we encounter them or drag Queens (popular in my region) because, ideology aside, we don't want them targeted or hurt.
P.S. 'Normal' referred to non phobics and non biggots, and 'normal' included TG's and drag Queens. I thought that was clear in my sentence structure. Apologies if it wasn't.