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mom4 said:How would it be a lie? An adoptive father who would love, care for, protect and provide for a child IS the father of the child. Ask any adoptive parent. The bond created by giving of yourself to this little one makes you by right the parent.
I would never conceal the fact that the child was adopted. As a child grew old enough to understand this word and ask questions, they would be answered truthfully. I don't discuss pornography, masturbation, torture, etc. with my children (ages 3-8). They are too young to understand and deal with this type of subject. Just so, I would delay the revelation of the hideous conception of the adopted child until it was old enough.
Johnney said:so you would punish the girl even further and make her carry someones bastard that was forced upon her? even though she didnt want to?
theim said:Yes. It's like if someone gets in a car accident caused by a drunk driver and loses their legs. It's horrible. It's not fair. It shouldn't have happened, But it did. The answer is not to kill a human life. Sorry.
but the thing is is your missing a leg, nothing you can do about it. there is something to do about a rape baby, if its so chosen.theim said:Yes. It's like if someone gets in a car accident caused by a drunk driver and loses their legs. It's horrible. It's not fair. It shouldn't have happened, But it did. The answer is not to kill a human life. Sorry.
Bonnie, as far as I know, Loyola University Med. Center a Catholic teaching hospital, takes rape cases. They prepare rape kit for police, etc. Also doBonnie said:There is adoption?
Johnney said:but the thing is is your missing a leg, nothing you can do about it. there is something to do about a rape baby, if its so chosen.
sorry
Shattered said:You would *make* them carry to full term? And if they didn't? How do you suppose you'd enforce this demand? Abuse? Leave them? How?
Might I suggest you tell your future wife up front, and warn her that the same will be required of any children if necessary.... It's guaranteed to save you a LOT of money in wedding costs.
maybe not for you, but for some other couple or parents or whatever, it could betheim said:yeah, killing a human being. That could be the solution to my current problem with money (I barely have any), but just because its possible does not neccesarily mean its right.
theim said:I'd throw em in the dungeon. Gimme a break. I would most likely find out my wife's stance on abortion before marrying her. But to humor you, yes, there would probly be some problems which would probly result in one of us leaving the other, seeing as how our very veiws of life and death differ so much.
that is kind of extremeShattered said:You gotta be kidding me.. You'd leave your wife because she was raped, and didn't want to carry the resulting baby? That's not even human.
Shattered said:You gotta be kidding me.. You'd leave your wife because she was raped, and didn't want to carry the resulting baby? That's not even human.
Johnney said:that is kind of extreme
theim said:I wouldn't marry anyone who supported abortion anway so its really a moot point.
but you can never tell until something like that happens. sure they may be against it now, but what happens 10-15 years down the road. people change which side of the fence they want to be on.theim said:Are you even listening? I would never leave my wife for wanting to have an abortion because I would never MARRY someone who was pro-abortion.
theim said:*sigh* All I was saying is that I would have a lot of trouble living with and sleeping with someone who allowed the death of a human being to alleviate their own suffering.
Shattered said:You think the suffering from rape can be *alleviated*? Not even close. However, where do you get off stating the woman should suffer even more just because of your beliefs?
theim said:This is why I will not marry a pro-choice woman, as I said in my last 3 replies. I would not want a person to suffer just because of my beliefs.
