Reasons why Married People would make threads about sex, dating and relationships

[Bonzi]

what's your theory?

 

[waltky]

To warn the rest of us?

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Dating part because that they got married after presumedly dating makes their advice more valuable than someone STILL just dating.

Sex because virtually everyone (even asexuals I've talked with have varying degrees of revulsion, most though like some aspects of sex even if only solo-sex) likes sex, not everyone's comfortable enough admitting it.

 

[Iron Head]

Why do you think that YOU do it?

 

[Auld Phart]

They miss the thrill of the chase, the flirting

 

[MisterBeale]

On reason a person might post such threads, is you need a topic to post about because you are a paid poster. As they teach at University in writing classes, write what you like, write what you know, write what you are interested in.

The reason you keep posting threads about dating and relationships, is because that is what interests you. That is your knowledge base. It is what interests you. It is easier to get paid posting on something you know about and enjoy posting on, then to try to pretend you care about partisan politics.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

They miss the thrill of the chase, the flirting

Anticipation of aquiring has always been more satisfying than actual possession of what's already been aquired.

 

[DGS49]

I have been married since 1973...not sure how many years that is.

I often comment about single-peoples' dating, mating, and coupling matters because it is obvious in many cases that they are thinking and acting stupidly.

Women tend to believe in fairy tales. They think that if they keep looking until they find their "soul-mate" then life will be happy ever after. And ironically, the older and less attractive THEY are, and the fewer eligible males there are in their target age group, the more selective they are about a mate.

Men OBVIOUSLY focus on trivialities, and forget that the ideal DATE would be a nightmare as a WIFE.

The proof is in the divorce statistics, particularly in the first few years. LOTS OF young people are getting married when it is obvious to any mature onlooker that they have no clue what they are doing or getting into.

 

[Iron Head]

Dating part because that they got married after presumedly dating makes their advice more valuable than someone STILL just dating.

Sex because everyone likes sex, not everyone's comfortable enough admitting it.

Fuck off, Delta, you snaggle toothed, tranny loving pervert. You are about one bad decision away from being featured on a murder-porn program on the ID channel.

 

[Iron Head]

They miss the thrill of the chase, the flirting

Anticipation of aquiring has always been more satisfying than actual possession of what's already been aquired.

That's why people commit crimes, eh, Delta!

 

[Bonzi]

To warn the rest of us?

I don't think I have yet to see a post about someone complaining about their CURRENT spouse.
Ex'es, yes.
Single people complaining about men/women.. yes.

I remember when I was young men always complained about their wives and talked about other women.
I don't hear that as much now.

I think having a "happy marriage" needs to be conveyed for the image of success in modern times (ugh, I hate that expression....)

 

[Bonzi]

Why do you think that YOU do it?

I don't mind being asked or answering.
I think it's funny certain women think I have this be secret agenda or game or what have you. It's hilarious.
Just like A&D gave you a "winner" for your post. I wonder why? All you have to do is ask.....

So, why do I think I, as a married person, post such threads?

I like to hear others opinions on relationships. Ultimately, we all have to decide for ourselves what works for us.
I feel like somewhat of a failure as a wife and mother. I'm not sure if that means I should not have married or had kids. I often wonder why some people seem more suited for marriage than others (or raising kids).

I guess I feel that I am "different" and, I'd like to understand why..... hearing from others I guess gives me a hope to gain some insight... maybe not bottom line answers.....

I have always enjoyed sexy talk, flirting etc. What could come of that is not really something I desire.
I don't want to meet anyone in real life on here
I do want to look forward to interesting posts and honest perceptions and feelings - or even funny nonsense - whatever.

To me, reading a response to a post of a subject I'm interested in (whether it's a thread of mine or someone elses) is like opening a Christmas present. I hope to hear something new, exciting, fun or funny.....

I like to flirt.
I like to enjoy people.
I'm curious
These are topics that interest me (along with movies and music) - but no one else here really seems as interested in those topics.

So, not sure that answered your question. If not, I can try again......

 

[Bonzi]

They miss the thrill of the chase, the flirting

The best part, and the 1st time.... after that, all down hill.....

 

[Bonzi]

I have been married since 1973...not sure how many years that is.

I often comment about single-peoples' dating, mating, and coupling matters because it is obvious in many cases that they are thinking and acting stupidly.

Women tend to believe in fairy tales. They think that if they keep looking until they find their "soul-mate" then life will be happy ever after. And ironically, the older and less attractive THEY are, and the fewer eligible males there are in their target age group, the more selective they are about a mate.

Men OBVIOUSLY focus on trivialities, and forget that the ideal DATE would be a nightmare as a WIFE.

The proof is in the divorce statistics, particularly in the first few years. LOTS OF young people are getting married when it is obvious to any mature onlooker that they have no clue what they are doing or getting into.

I think it's because parents are not involved in discussing relationships, so they based it on movies or hormones.
Or both.

I think people can flirt on here and love their spouses.
If they are seeking to meet someone or have "sex chat" in private, I don't think that is appropriate (who am I to judge, this is just my opinion).

 

[Arianrhod]

Post what and where? If they're posting on a dating site, the answer's obvious.

If they're posting conversationally on a political message board, the "why" depends on the tenor of the conversation.

 

[Bonzi]

Post what and where? If they're posting on a dating site, the answer's obvious.

If they're posting conversationally on a political message board, the "why" depends on the tenor of the conversation.

It's a very general question....
I have had people accuse me of looking for affairs etc. (which I am not)
I don't mind that they think that, but why ask me (or interrogate me) with questions, then just say they don’t believe me... (?)

For example, if I ask you why you didn’t answer my post and you said because you forgot about, I’m not going to say “sure sure, you just were bored and didn’t feel like answering it”. What is the point?
This gives people a chance to “state their case” if they feel so inclined. It seems to bother a lot of people too for some reason……

 

[Faun]

what's your theory?

My theory is you are unsatisfied in your own marriage.

 

[Iron Head]

Why do you think that YOU do it?

I don't mind being asked or answering.
I think it's funny certain women think I have this be secret agenda or game or what have you. It's hilarious.
Just like A&D gave you a "winner" for your post. I wonder why? All you have to do is ask.....

So, why do I think I, as a married person, post such threads?

I like to hear others opinions on relationships. Ultimately, we all have to decide for ourselves what works for us.
I feel like somewhat of a failure as a wife and mother. I'm not sure if that means I should not have married or had kids. I often wonder why some people seem more suited for marriage than others (or raising kids).

I guess I feel that I am "different" and, I'd like to understand why..... hearing from others I guess gives me a hope to gain some insight... maybe not bottom line answers.....

I have always enjoyed sexy talk, flirting etc. What could come of that is not really something I desire.
I don't want to meet anyone in real life on here
I do want to look forward to interesting posts and honest perceptions and feelings - or even funny nonsense - whatever.

To me, reading a response to a post of a subject I'm interested in (whether it's a thread of mine or someone elses) is like opening a Christmas present. I hope to hear something new, exciting, fun or funny.....

I like to flirt.
I like to enjoy people.
I'm curious
These are topics that interest me (along with movies and music) - but no one else here really seems as interested in those topics.

So, not sure that answered your question. If not, I can try again......

Hey, that's good enough for me. I was just asking rhetorically. I was not THAT interested. Thanks anyway, I guess.

 

[CrusaderFrank]

USMB is stud muffin central, how can you resist, Bonzi?

 

[Bonzi]

Why do you think that YOU do it?

I don't mind being asked or answering.
I think it's funny certain women think I have this be secret agenda or game or what have you. It's hilarious.
Just like A&D gave you a "winner" for your post. I wonder why? All you have to do is ask.....

So, why do I think I, as a married person, post such threads?

I like to hear others opinions on relationships. Ultimately, we all have to decide for ourselves what works for us.
I feel like somewhat of a failure as a wife and mother. I'm not sure if that means I should not have married or had kids. I often wonder why some people seem more suited for marriage than others (or raising kids).

I guess I feel that I am "different" and, I'd like to understand why..... hearing from others I guess gives me a hope to gain some insight... maybe not bottom line answers.....

I have always enjoyed sexy talk, flirting etc. What could come of that is not really something I desire.
I don't want to meet anyone in real life on here
I do want to look forward to interesting posts and honest perceptions and feelings - or even funny nonsense - whatever.

To me, reading a response to a post of a subject I'm interested in (whether it's a thread of mine or someone elses) is like opening a Christmas present. I hope to hear something new, exciting, fun or funny.....

I like to flirt.
I like to enjoy people.
I'm curious
These are topics that interest me (along with movies and music) - but no one else here really seems as interested in those topics.

So, not sure that answered your question. If not, I can try again......

Hey, that's good enough for me. I was just asking rhetorically. I was not THAT interested. Thanks anyway, I guess.

although the reply was to you, it wasn't just for you....
enjoy your Witch hunt!