Real Marriage and Why Homo "Marriage" is a Joke

[Hellbilly]

Amazing insight on marriage from Jordan Peterson. It is not a vow to be taken lightly

With half of all “real marriages” ending in divorce it would seem heterosexuals are not taking it seriously at all.


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[emilynghiem]

Amazing insight on marriage from Jordan Peterson. It is not a vow to be taken lightly

With half of all “real marriages” ending in divorce it would seem heterosexuals are not taking it seriously at all.


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it depends Billyboom
the meaning of the marriage is not so much about the length of time
as the QUALITY of the relationship and commitment.

Many people will have multiple partners throughout their lifetimes
(especially since people live twice as long now than in the past when 45 was the lifespan expectancy)

When we go to school and learn throughout life, we don't stay with just the
same high school our whole lives. We "graduate" from high school and move
on to college, and some also move on to graduate school or additional professional training.
Personal relationships can often be like that as well,
where we learn different things at different times by being with different people
through those stages. And it's normal to move forward, if both people outgrow each other.

As long as you make the most of your high school commitment,
or your college studies, that's what matters, not that you stay there for life!
And with personal relations, as long as you make smooth mutual transitions,
this doesn't have to mean anything negative to move on to other partners either.

What I look at when assessing if relations are successful or not:
How do people relate to their parents, and their EX partners and
EX employers or employees. If you treat your EX relations with
civil respect, that tells me you didn't have huge problems you never resolved.

Sure, staying at the same job or staying with the same partner for 20-40 years
means more than 2-4 years, but I look at the QUALITY of the relationship
and whether you are still committed to good working relations
REGARDLESS how the terms of the relationship change over time.