ChrisL
Diamond Member
No. If you are worried about being hurt you wouldn't gamble by being dishonest, would you?There's honesty and there's blurting out your future plans to someone you just met. That said, if you really believe that 70% of the guys you date are just in it to have sex and you are looking for commitment, unless you enjoy the process, then blurt it out.That's why I said a time and place for everything.Wouldn't it be kind of scary though, if someone told you right off the bat "I'm looking for a husband"?
I think it needs to be established if there is a mutual attraction to move forward.
The problem is, if there is a mutual attraction, most guys are ready for sex whether the relationship has potential for a future or not. Women might want to wait to see if there is potential for a future to have sex.
Am I wrong here? Would you say this is true in at least 70% of the cases?
I wouldn't say that are just in it to have sex.
I'm saying, if they find you attractive they WANT to have sex and WILL!
I woman might always want to have sex, but would hesitate because she might get hurt if it doesn't work out.
Make sense?
Or hurting the other person? I guess that thought doesn't even cross some people's minds!