"Addicted" to Porn?!

[Bonzi]

Why do you think men like porn?
Because their wives are not "wild" enough?

Or because maybe sometimes the wife isn't in the mood, and the guy just needs to literally "blow off" some steam.

Porn is only an issue when it starts interfering with a sex life. For most guys its just a form of stress relief.

Hmmmm I don't think it's necessarily an issue of QUANTITY as much as QUALITY....

men???

Quality has it's place, but sometimes a dude just has to let one out.

"some" people put out a lot.
I asked a question a while ago, about missionary only or wild in bed.

Would you rather have a missionary only women that will put out all the time
Or someone that will do anything once a week?

Having a woman who only likes missionary precludes one of my better talents (hint, I can touch my nose with my tongue).

I'll take your "non answer" as a victory on my part

 

[martybegan]

Or because maybe sometimes the wife isn't in the mood, and the guy just needs to literally "blow off" some steam.

Porn is only an issue when it starts interfering with a sex life. For most guys its just a form of stress relief.

Hmmmm I don't think it's necessarily an issue of QUANTITY as much as QUALITY....

men???

Quality has it's place, but sometimes a dude just has to let one out.

"some" people put out a lot.
I asked a question a while ago, about missionary only or wild in bed.

Would you rather have a missionary only women that will put out all the time
Or someone that will do anything once a week?

Having a woman who only likes missionary precludes one of my better talents (hint, I can touch my nose with my tongue).

I'll take your "non answer" as a victory on my part

Position and frequency is less important than the moment, and THAT's why you have porn to fill in the gaps.

Given the choice honestly, I would flip a coin.

 

[Bonzi]

Hmmmm I don't think it's necessarily an issue of QUANTITY as much as QUALITY....

men???

Quality has it's place, but sometimes a dude just has to let one out.

"some" people put out a lot.
I asked a question a while ago, about missionary only or wild in bed.

Would you rather have a missionary only women that will put out all the time
Or someone that will do anything once a week?

Having a woman who only likes missionary precludes one of my better talents (hint, I can touch my nose with my tongue).

I'll take your "non answer" as a victory on my part

Position and frequency is less important than the moment, and THAT's why you have porn to fill in the gaps.

Given the choice honestly, I would flip a coin.

Sans kid, why not divorce and seek better?

 

[martybegan]

Quality has it's place, but sometimes a dude just has to let one out.

"some" people put out a lot.
I asked a question a while ago, about missionary only or wild in bed.

Would you rather have a missionary only women that will put out all the time
Or someone that will do anything once a week?

Having a woman who only likes missionary precludes one of my better talents (hint, I can touch my nose with my tongue).

I'll take your "non answer" as a victory on my part

Position and frequency is less important than the moment, and THAT's why you have porn to fill in the gaps.

Given the choice honestly, I would flip a coin.

Sans kid, why not divorce and seek better?

Because it's not that big of a deal?

 

[ClosedCaption]

Men are visual and like variety....

I'll buy the variety part.. visual?
.. see my earlier post......

Porn chicks do all that extra that some married women dont feel the need to do anymore. I once heard this lady who said she has never had an orgasm while having sex and added "but I make all the faces and sounds like I am because a man likes to know he's doing something. And if you dont do it he'll find someone who will boost his ego in that way"

I refuse to do that.
It is what it is... no need to act.
He can go elsewhere if he's not happy. And I tell him that. And I don't care.

So much caring here..so much

Oh? It's caring to pretend to enjoy something you don't?

Dont be silly, you must think everyone thinks you're a great chef.

 

[Bonzi]

I'll buy the variety part.. visual?
.. see my earlier post......

Porn chicks do all that extra that some married women dont feel the need to do anymore. I once heard this lady who said she has never had an orgasm while having sex and added "but I make all the faces and sounds like I am because a man likes to know he's doing something. And if you dont do it he'll find someone who will boost his ego in that way"

I refuse to do that.
It is what it is... no need to act.
He can go elsewhere if he's not happy. And I tell him that. And I don't care.

So much caring here..so much

Oh? It's caring to pretend to enjoy something you don't?

Dont be silly, you must think everyone thinks you're a great chef.

I don't pretend to enjoy cooking

 

[TrinityPower]

Men by nature are more physically stimulated by visual things. Women tend to be more sexually stimulated more by smells and words and voices etc. That being said it explains a lot why attractive women are seen with men who are fat, bald and old but have a Barry White voice and smell like a model from GQ LOL

 

[ClosedCaption]

Porn chicks do all that extra that some married women dont feel the need to do anymore. I once heard this lady who said she has never had an orgasm while having sex and added "but I make all the faces and sounds like I am because a man likes to know he's doing something. And if you dont do it he'll find someone who will boost his ego in that way"

I refuse to do that.
It is what it is... no need to act.
He can go elsewhere if he's not happy. And I tell him that. And I don't care.

So much caring here..so much

Oh? It's caring to pretend to enjoy something you don't?

Dont be silly, you must think everyone thinks you're a great chef.

I don't pretend to enjoy cooking

But people who have a talent of being cordial dont say "I aint pretending to like your food stupid, and if you dont like it shove it"

 

[Bonzi]

I refuse to do that.
It is what it is... no need to act.
He can go elsewhere if he's not happy. And I tell him that. And I don't care.

So much caring here..so much

Oh? It's caring to pretend to enjoy something you don't?

Dont be silly, you must think everyone thinks you're a great chef.

I don't pretend to enjoy cooking

But people who have a talent of being cordial dont say "I aint pretending to like your food stupid, and if you dont like it shove it"

What is your point exactly?

 

[Bonzi]

Men by nature are more physically stimulated by visual things. Women tend to be more sexually stimulated more by smells and words and voices etc. That being said it explains a lot why attractive women are seen with men who are fat, bald and old but have a Barry White voice and smell like a model from GQ LOL

I married a blunt a-hole... so.... not sure you can generalize like that.........

 

[Bonzi]

I'll buy the variety part.. visual?
.. see my earlier post......

Porn chicks do all that extra that some married women dont feel the need to do anymore. I once heard this lady who said she has never had an orgasm while having sex and added "but I make all the faces and sounds like I am because a man likes to know he's doing something. And if you dont do it he'll find someone who will boost his ego in that way"

I refuse to do that.
It is what it is... no need to act.
He can go elsewhere if he's not happy. And I tell him that. And I don't care.

So much caring here..so much

Oh? It's caring to pretend to enjoy something you don't?

Dont be silly, you must think everyone thinks you're a great chef.

I have skillz. Cooking is not one... but I have become better...

 

[ClosedCaption]

So much caring here..so much

Oh? It's caring to pretend to enjoy something you don't?

Dont be silly, you must think everyone thinks you're a great chef.

I don't pretend to enjoy cooking

But people who have a talent of being cordial dont say "I aint pretending to like your food stupid, and if you dont like it shove it"

What is your point exactly?

Having sex with "I aint gonna do" rules is a sure way to get what you asked for. For him to find someone else

 

[TrinityPower]

Men by nature are more physically stimulated by visual things. Women tend to be more sexually stimulated more by smells and words and voices etc. That being said it explains a lot why attractive women are seen with men who are fat, bald and old but have a Barry White voice and smell like a model from GQ LOL

I married a blunt a-hole... so.... not sure you can generalize like that.........

I am sorry. I was once married to a man that did not appreciate any physical beauty attributes, demanded plain is the name of the game. He said no nice words (not even a hey you look really beautiful even on our wedding day), only bathed himself once a week and if I complained went two weeks (and marital duties were required during this time), spoke bluntly and vulgarly about things I would rather not go into and was all around an unpleasant person but hey he didn't view porn lol

 

[Bonzi]

Oh? It's caring to pretend to enjoy something you don't?

Dont be silly, you must think everyone thinks you're a great chef.

I don't pretend to enjoy cooking

But people who have a talent of being cordial dont say "I aint pretending to like your food stupid, and if you dont like it shove it"

What is your point exactly?

Having sex with "I aint gonna do" rules is a sure way to get what you asked for. For him to find someone else

He won't, I wouldn't be so lucky..........

 

[ClosedCaption]

Just leave, whats the point?

 

[martybegan]

Men by nature are more physically stimulated by visual things. Women tend to be more sexually stimulated more by smells and words and voices etc. That being said it explains a lot why attractive women are seen with men who are fat, bald and old but have a Barry White voice and smell like a model from GQ LOL

I married a blunt a-hole... so.... not sure you can generalize like that.........

I am sorry. I was once married to a man that did not appreciate any physical beauty attributes, demanded plain is the name of the game. He said no nice words (not even a hey you look really beautiful even on our wedding day), only bathed himself once a week and if I complained went two weeks (and marital duties were required during this time), spoke bluntly and vulgarly about things I would rather not go into and was all around an unpleasant person but hey he didn't view porn lol

Add this the category of "Things Marty doesn't understand when it comes to what some women put up with when it comes to men"

He sounds like an asshole, and not a "ha ha" asshole.

 

[Bonzi]

Men by nature are more physically stimulated by visual things. Women tend to be more sexually stimulated more by smells and words and voices etc. That being said it explains a lot why attractive women are seen with men who are fat, bald and old but have a Barry White voice and smell like a model from GQ LOL

I married a blunt a-hole... so.... not sure you can generalize like that.........

I am sorry. I was once married to a man that did not appreciate any physical beauty attributes, demanded plain is the name of the game. He said no nice words (not even a hey you look really beautiful even on our wedding day), only bathed himself once a week and if I complained went two weeks (and marital duties were required during this time), spoke bluntly and vulgarly about things I would rather not go into and was all around an unpleasant person but hey he didn't view porn lol

My husband is very compassionate (to others) .... he's actually a good and honest guy, he just hates me but can't live without me.. go figure!

 

[Bonzi]

Just leave, whats the point?

it's complicated....

 

[Bonzi]

Men by nature are more physically stimulated by visual things. Women tend to be more sexually stimulated more by smells and words and voices etc. That being said it explains a lot why attractive women are seen with men who are fat, bald and old but have a Barry White voice and smell like a model from GQ LOL

I married a blunt a-hole... so.... not sure you can generalize like that.........

I am sorry. I was once married to a man that did not appreciate any physical beauty attributes, demanded plain is the name of the game. He said no nice words (not even a hey you look really beautiful even on our wedding day), only bathed himself once a week and if I complained went two weeks (and marital duties were required during this time), spoke bluntly and vulgarly about things I would rather not go into and was all around an unpleasant person but hey he didn't view porn lol

Add this the category of "Things Marty doesn't understand when it comes to what some women put up with when it comes to men"

He sounds like an asshole, and not a "ha ha" asshole.

You have to live it to understand it... there is a lot in this world you should be glad to "not know"... leave it at that.....

 

[strollingbones]

my hubby thinks announcing he has taken a bath and shaved is some form of foreplay

sex can be difficult later in life....with bladder cancer i find its just not my first thought and last night when i was in the mood....he decides to make fun of my speech impediment...even when i mentioned this would not get him laid he continued....he is not being mean....he never does it in front of people but damn he loves to do it when we are alone...