Not sure how Christians can spin away a divorce. It is pretty obvious what God's opinion is.
FTA:Divorce. The Bible is very clear on this one: No divorcing. You can't do it. Because when you marry someone, according to Mark 10:8, you "are no longer two, but one flesh." And, Mark 10:9 reads, "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."
I'm still waiting to see an answer to this, rather than deflection.
But it's Monday, and I'll be here all week. Surely someone will say "Well, I've been married to the same person all along, and I should only be addressing my own issues."
Then I can point out that if nothing else, go with that. If you honestly believe you shouldn't be eating shellfish or a human of the same gender, AND you honor all the rest of it, that's a different discussion. But if you're cherry-picking Bible verses to foment bigotry, then you don't have a Biblical leg to stand on.
Biblical comprehension seems to be a problem here. Divorce is not trivial. Only infidelity, is given by Yeshua as a legitimate reason to divorce. Once you divorce, as a Christian, you are supposed to examine your soul, and repent of your mistakes. If the grace of the Lord is with you, and as a person, you are cleansed from your "sin(s)", you become a "new" person, eligible to marry again.
Many do not do this, and are examples of people repeating sinful behavior without repenting and without receiving (not saying it was not offered) the grace of the Lord. They are destined to repeat their mistakes again, without the help of the Lord.