Can I ask a serious question, and I really do not mean anything negative. At all!
It is just something that I've always pondered, as a hetero male...
I work with women who are transgender. They dress as men, but they are women and have women names. But they're obviously trying to be male.?
They freely say that they are gay and that's cool, and everything. No problems at all with that. They are great people too, so I don't have an issue.
But what lurks in my mind, and though they are openly gay, I don't know how to ask this question....
This applies to men and women who are openly gay, and identify with the other sex... Jus sayin...
How do I phrase this? Please bear with me, I am the most open person, I do not mean any harm. I just want to understand...
If you are a lesbian, and you dress and identify as a man, what do you look for in a mate? Do you look for a feminine woman, or someone else that identifies as male?
And how does the female mate choose a female man? This is what confounds me.. .
Because if I'm going to be 100% honest on a forum, there are things there that don't make sense to me. I have no issues with your choices. I just want to understand, because it does boggle my mind
So this is probably the proper place to ask this type of question!!