So I am correct in thinking that you believe morality is relative.
obviously so....each person determines the standard by which he measures his choices in life......even Hannibal Lector had such a standard......given that, its obvious that some people's standards really suck.....
defining genocide as the extermination of a specific group of people, obviously God can be responsible for such an act even if it is done through commanding others.....at issue is the word "guilt".....by your standard God might be "guilty" if he ordered the genocide of a tribe of Hannibal Lectors......or, as was the only case I am aware of in scripture, a tribe that was engaged in human sacrifice.......
would God, or anyone who chooses to follow him, be concerned about your standard of guilt under those circumstances?.....
your argument was that it was wrong for God to kill 42 boys just because he looked into their hearts and believed the world would be better off without them.....however, I have heard many times, atheists complain "oh, if God is omniscient, why didn't he kill Hitler.....the world would be so much better off without him".......I sensed an inconsistency in the arguments.....
Telling someone that they better accept God or face an eternity in unimaginable torture is a threat. To a nonbeliever, it is a scare tactic, and a simplistic one at that - something to keep the chaotic masses in line. It's threatening. It's like having someone hold a gun to your head and telling you that you must accept Allah or die. They are communicating the facts as they see them to you: that you have a simple choice, but it is inherently a threat.
not really.....you want to pretend its a donkey sitting on the road and a carrot or stick situation......in reality, its a carrot or stay sitting on the road situation.....now granted the road isn't going to be there forever, but its still the donkey's choice.....nobody is using a stick......