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Okay, so once the woman or man is "unfulfilled" and they go off and cheat, fine, fair enough.
I am with you. That is when I posted, if the person wants custody of the children, they should gets them, b/c, the other person obviously has respect for the family, and the person that cheated doesn't.
Should a mother that cheated still get custody of the children if she is at fault for breaking up the family? I don't think so. That is all I was getting at.
That is where this whole conversation started, isn't it?
I never said there wasn't any situation where there wasn't irreconcilable differences, did I?
Why are they "fucked up?"
You have to ask? Do you KNOW any people?
Socratic method, also known as maieutics, method of elenchus, elenctic method, or Socratic debate, is a form of cooperative argumentative dialogue between individuals, based on asking and answering questions to stimulate critical thinking and to draw out ideas and underlying presumptions. It is a dialectical method, often involving a discussion in which the defense of one point of view is questioned; one participant may lead another to contradict themselves in some way, thus weakening the defender's point. This method is named after the classical Greek philosopher Socrates and is introduced by him in Plato's Theaetetus as midwifery (maieutics) because it is employed to bring out definitions implicit in the interlocutors' beliefs, or to help them further their understanding.
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And most people do not practice this and are too emotional when it comes to relationships and such things.
Most "people" that decide to break up families have either come from dysfunctional homes themselves, or have come from broken homes. They have received that signal from society that it is all right to put their needs ahead of their children's needs, ahead of the families needs.
You nailed it though, folks become "too emotional." That is a luxury you are not allowed once you have children.
If you are listless, unhappy, unfulfilled, YOU DO NOT look outside the marriage for happiness. That is not betraying or cheating on your partner, it is cheating on YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR CHILDREN.
Yet, people do it ALL the time. Lol. So there you go. You just gave a great point as to why people do get divorced and why sometimes it's for the best of everyone involved in the dysfunction.
Okay, so once the woman or man is "unfulfilled" and they go off and cheat, fine, fair enough.
I am with you. That is when I posted, if the person wants custody of the children, they should gets them, b/c, the other person obviously has respect for the family, and the person that cheated doesn't.
Should a mother that cheated still get custody of the children if she is at fault for breaking up the family? I don't think so. That is all I was getting at.
That is where this whole conversation started, isn't it?
I never said there wasn't any situation where there wasn't irreconcilable differences, did I?