Why Older Men Would Rather Die Alone

I can't help it I'm a dirty old man. I'm 55 and 5 years ago was dating a Belarussian in her 20's for about 5 years. She left me for a richer dude. I don't blame her.

Anyways, there is a beautiful woman my age in my condos and she's a divorced nurse and mother of 2. I should be thinking about her but I'm not. I'm thinking about her 22 year old daughter. Her oldest seems to have her shit together. The younger one is cute if you ask me but she might be a little slow and a little chubby. Maybe on the spectrum but only a little? A slacker. And not hot enough that she can just find a guy to take care of her. To me she's a doll but I'm 55. I'll tell you this. If I had the balls, I'd ask her mom if I could take her out. No way she'd say yes but if that girl would be into me, I'd marry her and take care of all her needs. She's not retarded. She's in college but doesn't know what she wants to do with her life. I think she'd be happy being a stay at home mom or wife. I don't want to have kids so hopefully she doesn't either. A lot of young people don't. I don't even know if she wants kids. Anyways, here is what I would offer. If we marry and never divorce, I'll be dead in about 20 years. You're 22. So at 42 you'll be free of me. Right now we get along and I can get hard ons but in about 10 years you're going to become my caregiver. But when I die, you'll be free with $1 million dollars. Should I propose this to her mom? What do you think she'll say? LOL.

Our beautiful daughter is 26. When she was in a sorority in college, all her friends vocally and loudly called out the old creeps staring at them. One time at a gas station, a man about your age winked at her. She blared, "OMG, did you just wink at me? EWWWW"

Every woman in the gas station glared at the old guy.

I really hope this happens to you, you clearly deserve it
 
Very interesting. Why not another American woman?

How can you trust a Filipina woman? Or any other foreign woman who I would think is marrying me only to get to America and one day will take half my shit when she divorces me. But not before she cheats on me.

Do you have a pre nup?
Been married for 17 years, we have 3 kids together.

Were only planning on 2, but hit the oops!!! button when I was 53, lol 😆

I know a lot of Filipino girls here in the states. All of them married, good wives, good mother's.

American women have the virus AKA feminism.

My first wife was good, but I have eyes to see and ears to hear, hence I would never marry another American woman.

Feminism is a death sentence for a marriage and for society.
 
Our beautiful daughter is 26. When she was in a sorority in college, all her friends vocally and loudly called out the old creeps staring at them. One time at a gas station, a man about your age winked at her. She blared, "OMG, did you just wink at me? EWWWW"

Every woman in the gas station glared at the old guy.

I really hope this happens to you, you clearly deserve it
That's why I'm very careful. And I don't know why you have a bug up your butt. They are adults. And Trust me, when they get into their 30's they'll appreciate the cat calls. You clearly don't get them anymore.

There are a lot of college girls on onlyfans. I tried to hook up with some on that dating site where you swipe left or right and they all eventually tried to get me to go to their site and pay to see them do kinky things on the videos. I'm not paying for that. I just want to meet up and ****. Be a sugar daddy.

Yea, this girl didn't give off the vibe that she'd be down for the sugar daddy/baby relationship. And knowing her mom, I don't want it getting around I'm a Donald Trump.

But at least I only **** 18 and up. Trump bangs 14 year olds. Either that or he just turns a blind eye while his besty does it. Nah, Trump did it too. Why else did he own Teen USA pageant? What a ******* perve huh?

26 and I'm 55. That's only 29 years difference.

Trump and Melania are 24 years apart. Are you really going to give me shit because my gap is 5 years bigger? WOW!

Younger women are often attracted to older men for stability, maturity, life experience, and financial security, finding comfort in their established careers, calm demeanor, and clearer life goals, which contrast with the often less settled nature of younger men, though individual reasons vary widely. This attraction can stem from a desire for a provider, mentor, or simply a more grounded partner, sometimes linked to evolving relationship dynamics and individual needs.

You're a mean old lady. LOL
 
Been married for 17 years, we have 3 kids together.

Were only planning on 2, but hit the oops!!! button when I was 53, lol 😆

I know a lot of Filipino girls here in the states. All of them married, good wives, good mother's.

American women have the virus AKA feminism.

My first wife was good, but I have eyes to see and ears to hear, hence I would never marry another American woman.

Feminism is a death sentence for a marriage and for society.

Some guys can handle a feminist woman. I like what you have. If the woman gets out of line just give her a look and say "quiet piggy" and that's the end of it. LOL.
 
Our beautiful daughter is 26. When she was in a sorority in college, all her friends vocally and loudly called out the old creeps staring at them. One time at a gas station, a man about your age winked at her. She blared, "OMG, did you just wink at me? EWWWW"

Every woman in the gas station glared at the old guy.

I really hope this happens to you, you clearly deserve it

It's not all our fault. Tell your daughter to tell her sorority sisters to get off Only Fans. And often times prostituting themselves.

data and estimates suggest a significant population of young, college-aged women use the platform, often to cope with rising tuition costs and living expenses.

Approximately 1.2 to 1.4 million American women aged 18-24 are active content creators on OnlyFans

significant boom in creators on college campuses across the country.

OnlyFans boom on college campuses sparks concern as more students turn to platform for fast cash​

Documentary filmmaker says rising tuition costs drive students to adult content platform for quick money​


Creating and selling content on OnlyFans – a website that allows adults to produce and post their own sexually explicit content in exchange for money from subscribers – has become a popular way for college students to earn extra income while in school.

"More and more people aren't getting married," Rock Jacobs, director of a documentary series about the online platform infiltrating college campuses called "Lonely Fans," told Fox News Digital. "More and more people aren’t having kids, and more and more people want to cut the line. And since the pandemic, there was this explosion of OnlyFans. The amount of money they're making is more than Google, more than Intel, more than the NBA."

These women don't say EWWWW. They say $$$$$
 
Some guys can handle a feminist woman. I like what you have. If the woman gets out of line just give her a look and say "quiet piggy" and that's the end of it. LOL.
Filipino women are not like that... my wife is 4'11", 98 lbs and terrifying, lol

We have a great marriage. Kids are respectful and very well behaved. Like I said, my wife is a great spouse and mother.
 
Filipino women are not like that... my wife is 4'11", 98 lbs and terrifying, lol

We have a great marriage. Kids are respectful and very well behaved. Like I said, my wife is a great spouse and mother.
I would love to meet someone like that. You don't think places like this still exist where the women dig American men and want to come to America.

You're probably a good looking dude with a big dick. That helps. LOL.

At first, in the beginning, didn't you worry what if she was just marrying you to come to America? No pre nup? That's a leap of faith a lot of guys are no longer willing to enter by the way. I think it's great for people who last but all my divorced buddies, I feel sorry for them. Why did they enter into such a stupid contract? Women won't. Notice every rich woman has her husband sign one? He doesn't have the leverage to say "if you loved me you wouldn't ask".

I love AI. I asked it what percent of filipino marriages last and this came up. Take it for what it's worth

Marriages with Filipino women can last and often benefit from strong cultural values like family loyalty and commitment, but success depends on the couple overcoming potential challenges like age gaps, cultural differences, and differing expectations, with some studies suggesting higher dissolution risk for those with large age gaps or those marrying from urban areas, though modern trends show more couples choosing live-in arrangements for practicality.
Some people marry Filipinas expecting a guaranteed loving and faithful relationship, only to realize later that it wasn't the best decision. This observation is not meant to offend but to highlight certain realities.

There is a notion that some financially challenged Filipinas seek stability through marriage with foreigners, while foreigners look for qualities they find scarce in their own countries. It's important to remember that, despite speaking English and being familiar with American culture through media, Filipinas remain deeply rooted in their own cultural values.

Significant age gaps and differences in family dynamics, culture, and religion can pose challenges in these marriages. These factors sometimes lead to difficulties in achieving long-term happiness. Many Filipinas do aspire to marriage and stability, seeking not only financial security but also committed relationships.

How's it going so far, even if you are still in a relationship. Of course there is not perfect marriage, there will be ups and downs. But let be serious here can you get along with tastes in food, music, attending church or even when she interacts with her friends and family.

How's it going so far, even if you're still in the relationship? No marriage is perfect; there will be ups and downs. But let’s be honest—can you align on tastes in food, music, attending church, or even in how she interacts with her friends and family? Do you get stares due to the large age gap? Do you wish you had married someone closer to your age, perhaps just a few years older, so you have more things in common, like enjoying the same genres?

Added Recently for Reference Purposes:

Based on both available divorce statistics and probability, what is the percent statical percent of divorces and separations of Foreigners marring Filipinas that have a large age gap?

The data on divorce rates for foreigners marrying Filipinas with a large age gap is scarce, but available research does indicate a trend:

Studies suggest that couples with larger age gaps tend to have a higher risk of divorce compared to those with smaller age differences.

  • For example, a 10-year age gap can result in a 39% higher risk of divorce, while a 20-year age gap may increase the risk by up to 95%.
  • Factors such as cultural differences, family dynamics, and societal perceptions also contribute to this higher risk.
It's worth noting, that correlation doesn’t imply causation, which means that while age gap appears associated with higher divorce rates, it's just one of many factors that influence a marriage's success.

Source: Internet
 
That's why I'm very careful. And I don't know why you have a bug up your butt. They are adults. And Trust me, when they get into their 30's they'll appreciate the cat calls. You clearly don't get them anymore.

There are a lot of college girls on onlyfans. I tried to hook up with some on that dating site where you swipe left or right and they all eventually tried to get me to go to their site and pay to see them do kinky things on the videos. I'm not paying for that. I just want to meet up and ****. Be a sugar daddy.

Yea, this girl didn't give off the vibe that she'd be down for the sugar daddy/baby relationship. And knowing her mom, I don't want it getting around I'm a Donald Trump.

But at least I only **** 18 and up. Trump bangs 14 year olds. Either that or he just turns a blind eye while his besty does it. Nah, Trump did it too. Why else did he own Teen USA pageant? What a ******* perve huh?

26 and I'm 55. That's only 29 years difference.

Trump and Melania are 24 years apart. Are you really going to give me shit because my gap is 5 years bigger? WOW!

Younger women are often attracted to older men for stability, maturity, life experience, and financial security, finding comfort in their established careers, calm demeanor, and clearer life goals, which contrast with the often less settled nature of younger men, though individual reasons vary widely. This attraction can stem from a desire for a provider, mentor, or simply a more grounded partner, sometimes linked to evolving relationship dynamics and individual needs.

You're a mean old lady. LOL

You're pathetic.
 
You're pathetic.
So is Trump really but you worship him don't you. Even his 24 year younger wife. That's cool that he does it. But if I do it.

Holy shit this is just another example of this. Anyone else who does anything Teflon don does me or Newsom, we need to grow up. And we are pathetic. But Trump who chased around 14 year olds for 20 years is cool to lead our country.

You have brought out the worst in all of us. We can be Qanon too bitches!
 
That's why I'm very careful. And I don't know why you have a bug up your butt. They are adults. And Trust me, when they get into their 30's they'll appreciate the cat calls. You clearly don't get them anymore.

There are a lot of college girls on onlyfans. I tried to hook up with some on that dating site where you swipe left or right and they all eventually tried to get me to go to their site and pay to see them do kinky things on the videos. I'm not paying for that. I just want to meet up and ****. Be a sugar daddy.

Yea, this girl didn't give off the vibe that she'd be down for the sugar daddy/baby relationship. And knowing her mom, I don't want it getting around I'm a Donald Trump.

But at least I only **** 18 and up. Trump bangs 14 year olds. Either that or he just turns a blind eye while his besty does it. Nah, Trump did it too. Why else did he own Teen USA pageant? What a ******* perve huh?

26 and I'm 55. That's only 29 years difference.

Trump and Melania are 24 years apart. Are you really going to give me shit because my gap is 5 years bigger? WOW!

Younger women are often attracted to older men for stability, maturity, life experience, and financial security, finding comfort in their established careers, calm demeanor, and clearer life goals, which contrast with the often less settled nature of younger men, though individual reasons vary widely. This attraction can stem from a desire for a provider, mentor, or simply a more grounded partner, sometimes linked to evolving relationship dynamics and individual needs.

You're a mean old lady. LOL

I'm sorry to say, but the fact that you feel comfortable spewing this stuff means that IRL you give off a certain vibe which will only attract a certain kind of woman. The kind who make OF but don't want to go on a date with you.

Also, you completely copy and pasted the last paragraph, yes?
 
It's not all our fault. Tell your daughter to tell her sorority sisters to get off Only Fans. And often times prostituting themselves.

data and estimates suggest a significant population of young, college-aged women use the platform, often to cope with rising tuition costs and living expenses.

Approximately 1.2 to 1.4 million American women aged 18-24 are active content creators on OnlyFans

significant boom in creators on college campuses across the country.

OnlyFans boom on college campuses sparks concern as more students turn to platform for fast cash​

Documentary filmmaker says rising tuition costs drive students to adult content platform for quick money​


Creating and selling content on OnlyFans – a website that allows adults to produce and post their own sexually explicit content in exchange for money from subscribers – has become a popular way for college students to earn extra income while in school.

"More and more people aren't getting married," Rock Jacobs, director of a documentary series about the online platform infiltrating college campuses called "Lonely Fans," told Fox News Digital. "More and more people aren’t having kids, and more and more people want to cut the line. And since the pandemic, there was this explosion of OnlyFans. The amount of money they're making is more than Google, more than Intel, more than the NBA."

These women don't say EWWWW. They say $$$$$

This is horrid. So people like my daughter--a married Christian woman--deserve to get catcalled by old men because some girls are on OF?

Are you serious right now
 
Two things occurred to me as I read through this thread:

1) Sealybooboo is a HORRIBLE person.

2) What is meant by “dying alone”? Does it mean not having someone to care for you and visit you during the final few years, months, and weeks? Or does it mean the very moment of death, even if that person was blessed with a loving family and friends for months and weeks as the drying process unfolded, but for whatever reason was alone in the room when he drew his last breath?
 
So true. My mom died and my dad won't go anywhere or do anything.

EXCEPT, he likes to go to metroparks and collect cans people leave behind. He loves making money. Brags about it ad nauseum. It's kind of pathetic and embarrassing and he thinks he's brilliant like no one else thought about it and he's making a fortune. Meanwhile his one son is a multi millionaire. He's bragging about finding $16.50 in cans then going to ALDI and taking 2 shopping carts back to make it an even $17 like he gives a ****!

But we encourage him. Why? Because he's out walking around, bending over and picking up cans, he's 82 and he's going to outlive us all.
I'm glad you're encouraging him, for his mental as well as his physical health. At this point in his life, the money is just a way of keeping score. Not in the usual meaning, but it reminds him that he can still "make money" which I understand is a phrase unique to American English.

Men of his generation and our grew up understanding that bringing him the bacon was an important part of the masculine role.
 
I understand what you mean. I would only encourage you to amend that to "I will live the first year after the tragic event as if I plan to die alone."

God forbid Mrs. Flops goes before me, I would avoid dating for one full year. Experience all the holidays, fend off well-meaning women friends of my wife's who try to set me up with eligible widows and divorcees (or nominate themselves, as I suspect at least two of them would do), and spend time with my grown kids and the one grandkid I have on the way.

But after a year, I'd rethink. I believe I could find a woman younger by about ten years who would be willing to care for me, knowing she would be financially secure with the money I've been putting away anticipating I would go first.

Of course, I don't know how I'll react until that happens.
 
I understand what you mean. I would only encourage you to amend that to "I will live the first year after the tragic event as if I plan to die alone."

God forbid Mrs. Flops goes before me, I would avoid dating for one full year. Experience all the holidays, fend off well-meaning women friends of my wife's who try to set me up with eligible widows and divorcees (or nominate themselves, as I suspect at least two of them would do), and spend time with my grown kids and the one grandkid I have on the way.

But after a year, I'd rethink. I believe I could find a woman younger by about ten years who would be willing to care for me, knowing she would be financially secure with the money I've been putting away anticipating I would go first.

Of course, I don't know how I'll react until that happens.
If you’re looking for someone to provide care for you, and in return you provide money, why not just hire a nurse? Or even a caring nurse’s aide?
 
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If you’re looking for someone to provide care for you, and in return you provide money, why not just hire a nurse? Or even a caring nurse’s aide?
It might come to that. First I'd like to try to find a woman who would trust to care for me, including hiring and supervising any nurses I might need.

Not looking for someone to do the menial labor. I have enough set aside for a housekeeper, and an assistant to drive us to places and carry things and whatnot, but I'd like a wife I could trust to make sure the housekeeper doesn't steal me (us) blind, and the assistant doesn't run a scam.

I doubt I'd find that, to be honest. Particularly not the way the Mrs. will take care of me.
 
It might come to that. First I'd like to try to find a woman who would trust to care for me, including hiring and supervising any nurses I might need.

Not looking for someone to do the menial labor. I have enough set aside for a housekeeper, and an assistant to drive us to places and carry things and whatnot, but I'd like a wife I could trust to make sure the housekeeper doesn't steal me (us) blind, and the assistant doesn't run a scam.

I doubt I'd find that, to be honest. Particularly not the way the Mrs. will take care of me.
I understand that. There are a lot of people who prey on the elderly.

But if it comes to that, and you need to hire someone, go through an agency where the employees and vetted and bonded. Many of them are true angels.
 
I understand that. There are a lot of people who prey on the elderly.

But if it comes to that, and you need to hire someone, go through an agency where the employees and vetted and bonded. Many of them are true angels.
You've always had wise posts on here, and I'm sure that is one of them. If it comes to that, I may ask you for an agency recommendation.

Meanwhile, I'll pray it does not come to that. Depressing thread, but a topic that needs discussing.
 
You've always had wise posts on here, and I'm sure that is one of them. If it comes to that, I may ask you for an agency recommendation.

Meanwhile, I'll pray it does not come to that. Depressing thread, but a topic that needs discussing.
Thank you for the compliment. I would be glad to offer any insights, if and when it comes to that.

Also, it sounds like you’re quite comfortable financially. I am, as well, and enjoy managing my own portfolio. As I get older, I’ll probably want to simplify things, and move into a few broad index funds - S&P 500, a bond fund, things like that.

But the time may come when even that is too much. My plan will be to buy a lifetime annuity that will pay a nice monthly sum for life. That way, I won’t have to worry about managing a nest egg or, Gd-forbid, someone scamming me out of my money.

Anyway, just thoughts. True, it’s depressing, but I find it comforting to know I have a plan.
 
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