Why Older Men Would Rather Die Alone

[sealybobo]

No the youngins have their work cut out for them. I don't really need to work but I do work. Mainly to try and help my two kids come up with down payments for a house. Boy do those need to be a bigger sum than what I had to come up with. Once I get my kids in homes I will continue to work. I would like a better life style for myself but not really much better. I want some acreage so I can grow most my veggies. I get my meat through hunting and fishing for the most part.

I was off all last week and I'm off all this week. I'm already bored to death. Probably because it's winter. If it was summer time I would at least take the dog on 2 long walks. One in the morning and one from 4-6pm. Those 2 walks break up the day.

If I can work from home, no way I am going to retire at 62. Let's assume I'll get $2000 a month from social security. All I do is send quotes and process orders, from my laptop. It's too easy. So my plan is to buy a condo in Florida when I turn 62 and work from Florida Dec-March or April.

My dream is to also buy 20 acres that I can hunt but my brother has 60 acres and a home up north MI and I will probably never buy my own property because I have access to it. Plus I'm getting old. It takes years and energy to develop a piece of property. I'm so glad my brother bought his. I've had so many great experiences up there.

I sent him and his sons this video last night because of this one line in the song



Not everybody got that spot out in The Forty
Some ten point buck they shot hangin' like a velvet trophy

But we do Don't We?

 

[sealybobo]

Interesting topic, but that is a total shit AI-slop video.

Those AI videos should be banned from this site

My brother said he can't stand when these videos are narrated by that AI voice.

I think the video explains why older men would rather die alone very well. The only thing it leaves out, probably on purpose, is that our labidos aren't what they used to be either. So it's not just bad past experiences and all the other things he described. It's also physical.

Like I said in a previous post, I have been obsessed with this 22 year old girl. So I find a Youporn with an actress that looks like her and I rub one out. Suddenly, I'm over it. I no longer want to take her in and pay all her bills. And that would probably happen if she actually did move in. I'd probably get sick of her and want her to go. At least that's what my dating experience tells me will happen.

I tried to explain this to my dad last night. He met "the one" and lived happily ever after. Of course he has a different view on dating than I do. I've never met the one. So I love it when he trashes women who are either divorced or have never been married. He says "must be something wrong with her". And each time he says it I either ignore it or get mad and point out he could be talking about me. Then he goes into "oh it's different for a guy". No it isn't you asshole. You're a dick. And you keep saying it so you are a dick with Dementia. LOL.

 

[Dogmaphobe]

Tell him to get a dog if he needs a friend.

I sleep with two beautiful girls every night. One of them is black and one of them is white.

 

[martybegan]

My buddy who is also in his 50's and single sent me this. It's so spot on



Some of the things I related to. Older guys have no interest in meeting someone, going on a few dates, in hopes that maybe she's the one. Emotional fatigue. Tired of the process and how fast the connection can be lost.

A guy who's happily married for 10 years and his wife dies is going to want to go out and find someone else because he was successful in finding a soul mate. Us older guys have seen too much failure to believe the next one could be the one.

We've seen too many times that attraction can fade quickly and without warning. Loyalty is conditional. It's not being cynical it's realistic. How quickly I can go from in love to not in love. Scar tissue. Each experience hardens us. Slow to trust. Being alone doesn't mean being lonely. Hobbies, purpose, freedom. We value ourselves. Starting over is regression. Peace is Invest in ourselves.

He said:

Love without peace is not love
Companionship without respect is not worth the effort
Peace is not negotiable.

I see a lot of guys who have to walk on eggshells around their wives. Or they say they pick and choose their arguments. This is because they don't want to be alone. You have to compromise to live with someone else. Us single guys haven't met anyone who made us want to take them into our homes and have to listen to them nagging.

Once the Japanese perfect sex robots, we won't have to.

 

[marvin martian]

I have a lot of single ladies around me. Not interested in cohabitating with any of them. And the ones I would be interested in, are not interested in me. There's one in particular I could see myself with but I have a feeling she feels the same way us older guys feel. That's the vibe I get from her. So it's not completely one sides. Older women don't care as much as they did when they were younger too. And if they are single, they know failure too.

I remember when my grandmother was probably my neighbors age and I wondered why she didn't remarry. They like to say it's out of loyalty to their departed wives or husbands but I bet you if they were 30 and widowed, they'd wed again. It's a lot easier to be loyal to your departed spouse at 60 right?

I wish handjobs was a legal form of massage. That's all I want. Just every once in awhile for a lady to come over and wack me off with some lube on her hand. Then go.

You're pathetic.

 

[Zincwarrior]

You need a rescue plan for your pets.

Our poodle outlived her former owner and we grabbed her. We think one of the wienies did the same and nearly starved to death.

 

[sealybobo]

I sleep with two beautiful girls every night. One of them is black and one of them is white.

I do love my dog. But I should be around 62 when my dog dies. Maybe 65. I'm not getting another one after he goes. I really don't want to die on a dog. Seriously. I only worry about dying before 2 people. My dad and my dog. After they go, I won't worry as much about anyone else after I go. I think my nephews will remember me fondly and my brother will be the most sad but he has kids so he will get over it. Life goes on. It's going to happen to all of us.

 

[evenflow1969]

I was off all last week and I'm off all this week. I'm already bored to death. Probably because it's winter. If it was summer time I would at least take the dog on 2 long walks. One in the morning and one from 4-6pm. Those 2 walks break up the day.

If I can work from home, no way I am going to retire at 62. Let's assume I'll get $2000 a month from social security. All I do is send quotes and process orders, from my laptop. It's too easy. So my plan is to buy a condo in Florida when I turn 62 and work from Florida Dec-March or April.

My dream is to also buy 20 acres that I can hunt but my brother has 60 acres and a home up north MI and I will probably never buy my own property because I have access to it. Plus I'm getting old. It takes years and energy to develop a piece of property. I'm so glad my brother bought his. I've had so many great experiences up there.

I sent him and his sons this video last night because of this one line in the song



Not everybody got that spot out in The Forty
Some ten point buck they shot hangin' like a velvet trophy

But we do Don't We?

My brother is no longer with us. I don't have a brother with property unfortunately. It is on me. Duck season ends on the third. Can't run trips right now 60 mph winds. Death on a stick out there. I have no income set till jigging season in late March. Was going to look for something part time but decided to upgrade my Captains license to 100 ton. I will work on that and this condo till March. Hope to sell this condo this spring. I know of couple ranch homes on five acres that will be available at that time. Just gotta have this condo ready for market then. Both of them need work so I should be able to get in one right, I hope.

 

[Gabe Lackmann]

I don't think most people understand how many GD man-hours it takes to train a female appropriately.
I have been with my little Mrs for over 20 years now.
The ******* fights ALONE would eat up a year again.
Training a woman is like trying to saddle break a giant kangaroo.
So, if anything ever happened to her, there would most definitely not be another SERIOUS one.
Daddy has physical needs, of course, which would require tending from time to time.
However, the depth of my male-to-female conversations would be service sector related, "EXTRA cheese this time, not a dusting" or "pssst...You offer hand release...nice...let's have that."

 

[22lcidw]

Have you seen these AI robots and how far they have come? One day old guys will have a hot android who can bathe us, drive for us, hang out with us. So realistic a lot of seniors will forget they aren't human. They won't be able to live without them. Many seniors will be able to live at home by themselves and not have to go to a high cost senior living home when they have a $20,000 AI robot. And it doesn't have to have a vagina. You can pay to have one put on yours but I would just buy some kind of pocket ***** and have her use her hand on me. And look at me and say dirty things.

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That is the future. People like their independence. Even if lonely. Granddad/Grandma living with the family is part of our past. I think people will forego sexual relationships with their fellow humans and do it with artificial life forms as the technology advances and this may be the norm.

 

[sealybobo]

That is the future. People like their independence. Even if lonely. Granddad/Grandma living with the family is part of our past. I think people will forego sexual relationships with their fellow humans and do it with artificial life forms as the technology advances and this may be the norm.

Human males will **** anything. Look at JD Vance. He fucked a couch. Now put a head on that couch and teach it to talk.

My buddy said he would never **** a robot. Okay I said but do you jack off? Ever put porn on those virtual reality goggles you have there? Well if you had a robot that could, why wouldn't you give her a wet slippery glove and have her jack you off? Hang the screen on her face so you are watching porn. You don't have to **** it. It could just give you a massage too btw.

Let's get off the sex for a minute. You know how many things Iphones got rid of? Maps, cameras, radios, etc??? Robots will put massage therapists and chiropractors out of business. Nail salon techs, barbers, uber drivers, dog walkers, landscapers, my robot can do all of that.

 

[sealybobo]

Dying alone is.just sad. Dont be like your friend.

You know what's funny? I'm going to call bullshit on this comment. First, you've never responded to my comment that if you are married, either you or your spouse will die alone. So you have a 50/50 chance you'll be joining me. Sad huh? No comment?

2ndly, how many of YOU married people will remarry when your spouse passes away? Why don't most of you just quickly remarry?

I wanted to make a comparison but this might not be good for you because you are Canadian. This is a Football analogy. Us older men who are single are like Detroit Lion's fans. Would we like to see a Superbowl before we die? Sure we would. Who wouldn't. But we are Lion's fans. We've had our hearts broken every year our entire lives.

You happily married people are like New England Patriot fans. Dallas Fans. Green Bay Fans. Chicago Bears fans. They have all seen Superbowls. So they are way more optimistic about maybe seeing another one before they die. For me, I just don't think it's ever going to happen. The Lion's will never win a superbowl.

Sad? Sure. But I still love Football/Life, right?

Hell, look at Philly fans. They EXPECT a Superbowl. Their team is 11 and 5 and all year all we hear is Philly fans bitching about how they suck. Eagles fans are like an abusive husband. If he can't have you no one can. LOL.

 

[shockedcanadian]

You know what's funny? I'm going to call bullshit on this comment. First, you've never responded to my comment that if you are married, either you or your spouse will die alone. So you have a 50/50 chance you'll be joining me. Sad huh? No comment?

2ndly, how many of YOU married people will remarry when your spouse passes away? Why don't most of you just quickly remarry?

I wanted to make a comparison but this might not be good for you because you are Canadian. This is a Football analogy. Us older men who are single are like Detroit Lion's fans. Would we like to see a Superbowl before we die? Sure we would. Who wouldn't. But we are Lion's fans. We've had our hearts broken every year our entire lives.

You happily married people are like New England Patriot fans. Dallas Fans. Green Bay Fans. Chicago Bears fans. They have all seen Superbowls. So they are way more optimistic about maybe seeing another one before they die. For me, I just don't think it's ever going to happen. The Lion's will never win a superbowl.

Sad? Sure. But I still love Football/Life, right?

Hell, look at Philly fans. They EXPECT a Superbowl. Their team is 11 and 5 and all year all we hear is Philly fans bitching about how they suck. Eagles fans are like an abusive husband. If he can't have you no one can. LOL.

We all die alone reegardless but having someone there to.acknowledge our life and to care about our passing is divine.

 

[sealybobo]

We all die alone reegardless but having someone there to.acknowledge our life and to care about our passing is divine.

Is it? Or is being there more for us? My dad, brother and I are always saying we were sooooo glad to be there when my mom passed away. We would have felt a little guilty if we weren't.

But who knows how she feels? Is she sitting around worrying about who's in the room? I don't think so.

But I will give you this. My grandfather waited for my brother and I to arrive before he died. He actually was so happy the sob stuck around for another 3 days. My brother and I stayed in that hospital room 24 hours a day. We only left for a couple hours a day to go to the ocean. He was in Fort Lauderdale. But then right back to his side.

OMG, my aunt is closing in on 80, she has Dementia/Alzheimers, just broke her leg. They thought it was her hip. That would have been worse. NOW, she absolutely wants us all there in Fort Lauderdale fawning over her for however long she lives. Last year I went for dinner at their home, stayed an hour then left. Now I have to go to the rehab hospital every day after work? For how long? And I can't take my dog in? She is becoming a huge pain in the ass. She's just like my dad. She's been dying the last 20 years but will outlive us all. Last year she had dementia I thought no way she'd be alive this year.

My brothers in laws and my dad have become very needy too. Like babies. So us 50 year olds are telling my nephews they do not have to wipe our asses or visit every day. Do I want someone coming to visit every day when I know they don't want to visit every day? So visit once a week.

OMG, you're getting me worked up. LOL. I go to the cemetery with my dad. He judges other plots. Look at that plot, his kids don't put down flowers ever. I want to say "dad, I'm going to maybe visit once a year and I certainly won't be wasting money on flowers". So Greek parents want to control you even after they die. How can you ever move away? You will be leaving their grave sites??? ******* idiot. LOL. I'm sorry, I love my dad but he's a total dipshit. I can't believe he's my father. I'm totally mom moms son.

 

[Unkotare]

My buddy who is also in his 50's and single sent me this. It's so spot on



Some of the things I related to. Older guys have no interest in meeting someone, going on a few dates, in hopes that maybe she's the one. Emotional fatigue. Tired of the process and how fast the connection can be lost.

A guy who's happily married for 10 years and his wife dies is going to want to go out and find someone else because he was successful in finding a soul mate. Us older guys have seen too much failure to believe the next one could be the one.

We've seen too many times that attraction can fade quickly and without warning. Loyalty is conditional. It's not being cynical it's realistic. How quickly I can go from in love to not in love. Scar tissue. Each experience hardens us. Slow to trust. Being alone doesn't mean being lonely. Hobbies, purpose, freedom. We value ourselves. Starting over is regression. Peace is Invest in ourselves.

He said:

Love without peace is not love
Companionship without respect is not worth the effort
Peace is not negotiable.

I see a lot of guys who have to walk on eggshells around their wives. Or they say they pick and choose their arguments. This is because they don't want to be alone. You have to compromise to live with someone else. Us single guys haven't met anyone who made us want to take them into our homes and have to listen to them nagging.

Nihilistic nonsense.

 

[Unkotare]

All this navel-gazing nonsense is why people have children. The biological imperative.

 

[sealybobo]

Nihilistic nonsense.

I don't feel like I or that piece on why older men would rather die alone is nihilistic.

A nihilistic outlook believes life, values, and existence are inherently meaningless, senseless, or useless, rejecting objective truth, purpose, and morality

I sent it to some lady friends who are my age and they sent me back one called Why Older Women Would Rather Die Alone. They feel the same way.

So this is objectivism or realism.

I like the analogy I used earlier. I'm a Detroit Lion's fan. You are a Patriot's fan. Let's say football was dating. YOU have had a lot of luck in football/dating. So you are probably pretty optimistic that you will see another Patriot Superbowl victory before you die. Am I right? Shit, look how your team fell apart and already you are better than the Lions AGAIN. Already you have rebuilt your team so that it's once again competing for championships. You have every reason to be optimistic.

So am I nihilistic when I say the Detroit Lions will never win a Superbowl in my lifetime? Am I nihilistic when I don't even get my hopes up because for 50 years I've been let down year after year after year?

 

[wist43]

First wife died when I was in my 40's... would never marry another American woman.

I became a "passport bro" before it was the cool thing to do... married a filipina - best thing I've ever done. Couldn't be happier.

 

[Zebra]

 

[sealybobo]

First wife died when I was in my 40's... would never marry another American woman.

I became a "passport bro" before it was the cool thing to do... married a filipina - best thing I've ever done. Couldn't be happier.

Very interesting. Why not another American woman?

How can you trust a Filipina woman? Or any other foreign woman who I would think is marrying me only to get to America and one day will take half my shit when she divorces me. But not before she cheats on me.

Do you have a pre nup?