He didn't help matters any. You don't swagger into the room, slap the nearest guy in the face, then expect him to compromise with you when you want something from him. He made petulance and arrogance the hallmark of his early administration.
WTF??
How did you miss the part where Republicans came up with that plan to say no to everything Obama wanted
on inauguration day?
Did they? I seem to remember a few things that happened first.
There was this..... "Elections have consequences..and I won" Remember that?
Then there was this gem....."Republicans had driven the economy into a ditch and then stood by and criticized while Democrats pulled it out. Now that progress has been made, he said, "we can't have special interests sitting shotgun. We gotta have middle class families up in front. We don't mind the Republicans joining us. They can come for the ride, but they gotta sit in back."
The Republicans are no angels to be sure. But Obama wanted them to know they were irrelevant, he didn't need them, had no desire to listen to them. And for a while he and his cronies did a great deal to undermine the Constitution and enrich their friends, the country be damned.
Then things changed, and he's done zero to work with them on anything. Why should they?