When did you expect to lose your virginity or when did you lost it?

Mortimer

Gold Member
Joined
Sep 29, 2010
Messages
4,201
Reaction score
899
Points
165
Location
ON THIS ROCK I WILL BUILD MY CHURCH (Matthew 16:8)
When I was a teenager I was ridiculed already at 16 for being a "virgin" for a male "virgin" or "jungfrau" is emasculating and offensive. If you are girl it is different I guess. I know guys who bragged at 11 they "fucked girls". I dont know when I expected it but anytime I became aware of sex and sexuality. So likely 11-12+ but actually it happened at 22 very late, and with a prostitute.
 

Canon Shooter

Diamond Member
Joined
Jan 7, 2020
Messages
2,935
Reaction score
2,781
Points
1,918
I was 17, girl's name was Eileen. She, too, was 17, but she had quite a bit more experience than I...
 

Thunk

Diamond Member
Joined
Sep 30, 2019
Messages
4,286
Reaction score
3,496
Points
2,060
Location
Minnesota
I was 16, her name was Catherine (only I called her that...everybody else called her KT).

I lasted 2 strokes...1 stroke in...and 1 stroke out. :206:
 

bluzman61

Diamond Member
Joined
Sep 3, 2019
Messages
24,292
Reaction score
22,273
Points
2,415
Location
Valparaiso, Indiana USA
When I was a teenager I was ridiculed already at 16 for being a "virgin" for a male "virgin" or "jungfrau" is emasculating and offensive. If you are girl it is different I guess. I know guys who bragged at 11 they "fucked girls". I dont know when I expected it but anytime I became aware of sex and sexuality. So likely 11-12+ but actually it happened at 22 very late, and with a prostitute.
Wow, I admire your honesty, Mort. I was a late bloomer as well, and lost my virginity when I was 19, and a college freshman at Northern Arizona University in Flagstaff, Arizona, in October of 1980. I'm STILL trying to find that virginity that I lost. Actually, I'm trying to find those carefree days again. They are HARD to find.
 

Dick Foster

Platinum Member
Joined
Dec 27, 2018
Messages
7,339
Reaction score
3,723
Points
1,065
Location
The People's Republic of the Californicated
When I was a teenager I was ridiculed already at 16 for being a "virgin" for a male "virgin" or "jungfrau" is emasculating and offensive. If you are girl it is different I guess. I know guys who bragged at 11 they "fucked girls". I dont know when I expected it but anytime I became aware of sex and sexuality. So likely 11-12+ but actually it happened at 22 very late, and with a prostitute.
I didn't lost it, as you say, I threw it away. LOL And I couldn't get rid of it fast enough. In SC at the time we could get our drivers licenses at 14 and the rest just kinda follows naturally.
 

MisterBeale

Gold Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2012
Messages
26,630
Reaction score
7,886
Points
280
I told my son I'm still a virgin and that he should never worry about when he has sex for the first time. . .
 

Hossfly

ZIONUT
Gold Supporting Member
Joined
Dec 5, 2008
Messages
42,730
Reaction score
14,615
Points
2,290
Location
Ft Worth,TX
I couldn't have been more than 3. It was in preschool and it happened right after I pulled her pigtail and she kicked me. It's been so long ago and I can't remember what it was that we did. It's so hazy...........
 

Billy_Kinetta

Paladin of the Lost Hour
Gold Supporting Member
Joined
Mar 4, 2013
Messages
50,013
Reaction score
17,165
Points
2,280
My story would not be believed.
 

Dogmaphobe

Platinum Member
Joined
Sep 22, 2014
Messages
15,652
Reaction score
6,128
Points
1,095
Location
Or uh gun
16. She was 16.

She was my girlfriend all through high school.

we are friends on facebook, and even after 50 years, her face seems the same to me.
 

fncceo

Platinum Member
Joined
Nov 29, 2016
Messages
25,470
Reaction score
9,550
Points
910
Fingers crossed, any day now.
 

Lysistrata

Gold Member
Joined
Oct 11, 2017
Messages
13,834
Reaction score
3,424
Points
290
It's nice to hear from the guys, finally. All of the moralizing types in my lifetime seem to have always focused on girls and connected this to notions of "morality." I'd like to know whether you guys ever thought about "morality" in the context of losing your virginity, as in "what does God think of me." and "I must save myself for marriage." We girls got the whole "morality" thing laid on us thickly and constantly. The people who did this never thought that, just maybe, we females just might want to get laid sometimes. Skip the sap about Virginity! Virginity! I went to a Catholic college. We girls used to joke that we would have heard from an archangel by then if we were slated to give birth to a messiah.

So just what is the connection between "morality" and "not doing it"?
 

Deplorable Yankee

Platinum Member
Gold Supporting Member
Joined
Feb 7, 2019
Messages
8,412
Reaction score
4,435
Points
1,065
Location
DIXIE
When I was a teenager I was ridiculed already at 16 for being a "virgin" for a male "virgin" or "jungfrau" is emasculating and offensive. If you are girl it is different I guess. I know guys who bragged at 11 they "fucked girls". I dont know when I expected it but anytime I became aware of sex and sexuality. So likely 11-12+ but actually it happened at 22 very late, and with a prostitute.
I was raped by my sisters best friend at 13 ...she was 17 at the time

Oh wait that's right you can't rape the willing
 

Tipsycatlover

Diamond Member
Joined
Sep 23, 2016
Messages
42,596
Reaction score
14,913
Points
2,290
I was 13 when I decided to take my first lover. He was twice my age and not at all interested. He was an outlaw biker and I wanted on the back of that bike. I finally aggravated him enough to teach me a lesson I would never forget. We were together for the next five years and two of my marriages.
 

gipper

Libertarian/Anarchist
Joined
Jan 8, 2011
Messages
37,293
Reaction score
9,501
Points
1,330
I was 13 when I decided to take my first lover. He was twice my age and not at all interested. He was an outlaw biker and I wanted on the back of that bike. I finally aggravated him enough to teach me a lesson I would never forget. We were together for the next five years and two of my marriages.
What? Together for five years and two marriages...???
 

Tipsycatlover

Diamond Member
Joined
Sep 23, 2016
Messages
42,596
Reaction score
14,913
Points
2,290
I was 13 when I decided to take my first lover. He was twice my age and not at all interested. He was an outlaw biker and I wanted on the back of that bike. I finally aggravated him enough to teach me a lesson I would never forget. We were together for the next five years and two of my marriages.
What? Together for five years and two marriages...???
Does that not make sense? I married twice. Once at 15 and again at 16. I kept my lover until I was 18. Then events conspired to break us apart. We never married. It's not rocket science.
 

HenryBHough

Gold Member
Joined
Jul 14, 2011
Messages
29,246
Reaction score
5,568
Points
290
Location
Oak Grove, Massachusetts
A wise older woman told me to never try to seduce a woman. Make her seduce you. She was right! And it wasn't with that lady - rather another 18 year old (yes I made sure to confirm her age weeks before...knowing, at the time, that "17 will get you 20".

So pleasing that old age seems to only bother short term memory. Those long term ones........oh yeah!
 

Most reactions - Past 7 days

Forum List

Top