Men should have no say in the matter.
As a woman, this being my father's account in case of confusion, I completely disagree. what if the man wants a child? half that child is of his blood and creation. Why should he have no say? A woman can murder his child simply because she chooses not to carry it? That's disgusting. Anyone who feels this way, carries no heart beneath their ribs. The child growing in that woman's stomach is his as well. It is a decision made between both partners, not just one.
You are certainly entitled to your own opinion, Mr Man, but the ultimate decision belongs to the woman. I do think most women keep in mind, when making that very important decision, whether the man is going to be in the picture or not, however, I cannot speak for all women. And whether you like it or not, it is her body, and it is her choice.
Actually that was my daughter. I went to bed last and forgot to log off and she clearly took some liberties. She will receive a talking to when she wakes up. She brings up a good point though. If a man wants the baby and is willing to take it and raise it, even on his own, why should the woman be able to terminate the child over his objection? I get that it is her body, but she willingly engaged in creating it. Why should she be allowed to unilaterally destroy it?
That's the way it is in our society.
I had a friend years ago that impregnated his girlfriend. They were underage and ran off to Florida. The cops caught up with them and brought them back here to Cleveland where they had the child.
They were all set to raise their family after they finished school, but she changed her mind. She didn't want the baby anymore and didn't want him either. So he agreed to take the child and raise it himself.
She didn't want him to have the baby either and took it to court, and to make a long story short, the judge stripped that child out of my friends arms after he said his last goodbyes to his baby.