Clearly you aren’t.I’m well aware of how the Catholic Church defines grace
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Clearly you aren’t.I’m well aware of how the Catholic Church defines grace
-- each of these offers a way to earn approval. Only Christianity dares to make God's love unconditional.
Let's start with this, and then I can return to your other points as time permits. Answering your question about God being contradictory. (Keep in mind I have also said that when one discerns what God has said, the first thing we do is check that it does not go against scripture.)To me, the position you're taking implies that every believer ends up with a personal God — one shaped to fit their own reading, feelings, and background. And that, to me, directly contradicts the claim that there is only one true, knowable God. That’s not a minor inconsistency. That’s a foundational one.
Truth is truth. Perspective is one's take on the story. For example, take the story of the Canaanite woman who kept calling after Jesus to heal her daughter. Jesus ignored her for quite some time. What is your perspective on why Jesus took this stance?Which brings me to a more fundamental issue: are you seeking truth or personal meaning? Because those are not the same thing. If your goal is inspiration or moral reflection, then yes — contradictions might not matter so much. But if you're claiming a particular God exists and has communicated a singular divine truth, then contradictions do matter — not as a preference, but as a logical necessity.
Thanks — but I need to point out that you still haven’t actually answered the question I asked.Truth is truth. Perspective is one's take on the story. For example, take the story of the Canaanite woman who kept calling after Jesus to heal her daughter. Jesus ignored her for quite some time. What is your perspective on why Jesus took this stance?
The first Christians who witnessed the supernatural acts performed by Jesus - which included controlling matter, controlling nature, healing physical deformities, healing diseases, raising the dead and resurrecting himself from death - worshiped Jesus as God because they witnessed those miracles. Non-Christian historians recorded that the first Christians worshiped Jesus as God because he performed supernatural feats. 24,000 written manuscripts documented the supernatural feats Jesus performed and the first Christians witnessed. The Babylonian Talmud confirms Jewish religious leaders put Jesus to death for sorcery and for leading Israel into apostasy. There are no opposing accounts that document that Jesus did not perform any supernatural acts. There are no opposing accounts that argue Jesus wasn't put to death for performing sorcery and inciting Israel to apostasy. There are no opposing accounts which document Jesus wasn't resurrected. There are no opposing accounts that the first Christians didn't witness Jesus performing supernatural acts. There are no opposing accounts that document the first Christians didn't worship Jesus as God.You’re shifting the discussion toward interpretation and perspective, but I’m asking something more fundamental: Do you believe the Bible is true — and what kind of truth are you claiming when you say that? Literal, historical, theological, moral, metaphorical?
Of course it is historical and for good reason. Some directions were for a specific people, sometimes for a specific time. The Jews were to be a people set apart, not mix with others. There are three theories I've come across relating to different fabrics. One, is for the Jews putting them on and wearing them to remember they were a people set apart, not to mix with others. Second, the fabrics of the time were primarily linen and wool which, even today, is not a good mix due to shrinkage and durability factors. The third I find the most interesting, especially in light of the golden calf. Clearly, some of the people still thought these idols could still answer prayers, protect them. There are a few occupations, positions today where one does not copy the dress of these positions. Judges robes, military uniforms, police uniforms, priestly robes.A perfect example: I recently watched a debate between Charlie Kirk and a Cambridge archaeology and anthropology student. At one point, when challenged on troubling biblical laws — like wearing of different fabrics in garments deserving death or several others that make no sense in today's context— Kirk insisted we must read them in historical context. Exactly the move you're making: don’t take it at face value, understand the world in which it was written. But minutes later, when defending his stance against gay marriage, he completely flipped. When the student pushed back on the authority of scripture in that case, Kirk dismissed him with: “Oh, so you think you know better than the Church Fathers?”
So: context matters… until it doesn’t. Then it’s "shut up and obey authority."
Same person. Same debate. Totally different interpretive principle — chosen based on which one backed the point he already wanted to make.
It is not God who changes, but people.And this isn’t rare. This kind of selective application is everywhere in religious discourse. People toggle between “contextual reading” and “plain truth,” between “God spoke to me” and “check it against scripture,” depending on what outcome they’re aiming for. It’s not even necessarily dishonest — just deeply human. But it does mean that the God people follow is often a projection: not the unchanging Creator, but a divine mirror reflecting their own biases back at them.
I teach. When a student needs an additional explanation or approach to understand a problem, I'm there. This does not make me their personal teacher, it means I gave them some personal attention for their particular question and level of understanding.So when you say no one ends up with a personal God, I just don’t see that borne out. In practice, that’s exactly what people have. And if God’s will can be so easily molded by personal context while still being claimed as objective and absolute — then how is that not a foundational inconsistency?
The Bible is the story of God in our midst, in the midst of the people, in the midst of their history. Not everything in the Bible is about me, but about life in general. Not all facets of my life match all facets of the Bible. What matched the life of my closest friend, did not match my own life. In that way, the Bible is quite flexible in that it covers a huge number of situations--and not all Biblical situations enter into my life.Thanks — but I need to point out that you still haven’t actually answered the question I asked.
You’re shifting the discussion toward interpretation and perspective, but I’m asking something more fundamental: Do you believe the Bible is true — and what kind of truth are you claiming when you say that? Literal, historical, theological, moral, metaphorical?
That’s not a side point — it’s the foundation of this entire conversation. Because without a clear answer there, it becomes impossible to evaluate the meaning or authority of any specific story — including the one about the Canaanite woman. If you're not willing to define what kind of truth you believe scripture holds, then any claim about God's will or character rests on sand.
To be blunt: if the Bible is just a source of inspiration or personal meaning for you, then contradictions and selective readings aren’t really a problem. But if you're claiming that there’s a real God who has revealed a singular, knowable truth, then contradictions aren’t just inconvenient — they’re fatal to the claim of coherence.
So I’ll ask again, clearly and directly: Do you believe the Bible is true — and in what sense? Because without that clarified, the rest of the discussion risks becoming just a dance around hard questions.
I had devout Catholic parents too and that’s not how my father behaved. So maybe it wasn’t the fault of the Church. Maybe it was the fault of your father and you are blaming the Church for his behaviors. Didn’t you say he was a drunk? Didn’t you say he was abusive? Didn’t you say he cheated on your mother?For the record, I witnessed this in my own family in how my mom was a devout Catholic who was taught a women's place was in the home and to have many children and obey her man. Conveniently, my father was a devout Catholic and loved those rules and lorded over her like a military general berating her for anything and everything, all in accordance with biblical teachings that a woman (or slave) was much less than a male and their property.
She accepted these rules because people in authority taught her that this was what "God" wanted.
For the record, I witnessed this in my own family in how my mom was a devout Catholic who was taught a women's place was in the home and to have many children and obey her man. Conveniently, my father was a devout Catholic and loved those rules and lorded over her like a military general berating her for anything and everything, all in accordance with biblical teachings that a woman (or slave) was much less than a male and their property.
She accepted these rules because people in authority taught her that this was what "God" wanted.
Matthew 7:21
21 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.
Maybe he was following scripture. You know, like slave owners followed the letter of God's word of how to beat your slaves.I had devout Catholic parents too and that’s not how my father behaved. So maybe it wasn’t the fault of the Church. Maybe it was the fault of your father and you are blaming the Church for his behaviors. Didn’t you say he was a drunk? Didn’t you say he was abusive? Didn’t you say he cheated on your mother?
Or maybe you are blaming the Church instead of your father. Talk about an external locus of control. It’s not your father’s fault, it’s the church’s fault. Give me a break.Maybe he was following scripture. You know, like slave owners followed the letter of God's word of how to beat your slaves.
I have a bluetooth headset when I am doing work around the house and in the yard and driving and I listen to YouTube debates, podcasts and one of those is a black person who is a former minister who saw the light. He said Christianity was used to keep black people in poverty by telling them it was a cross to bear, and they would be rewarded in heaven. Unfortunately human history is such that even slaves were made to believe that nonsense and blacks accepted their lot in life of poverty as a "virtue".Here's the thing. Religion interprets the Bible for the uneducated or the illiterate. Throughout history, the peasants weren't educated. They relied on the nobility and the priests to teach them about the Bible.
The priests were mostly the lesser sons of nobility, (first son inherited the wealth, lands and title, second son joined the army, third son joined the priesthood), with a vested interest in maintaining the status quo for their own family's wealth and power.
Popes encouraged wars, colonialism, and involved themselves in European politics until the Reformation. Promising the poor life everlasting and riches in heaven, if they submit to their Lords and masters on earth.
I love people who only look to confirm their biases and never look at the whole picture. I wonder if that black minister knew the history of Christian churches and members who were abolitionists.I have a bluetooth headset when I am doing work around the house and in the yard and driving and I listen to YouTube debates, podcasts and one of those is a black person who is a former minister who saw the light. He said Christianity was used to keep black people in poverty by telling them it was a cross to bear, and they would be rewarded in heaven. Unfortunately human history is such that even slaves were made to believe that nonsense and blacks accepted their lot in life of poverty as a "virtue".
Given that 94% of blacks vote for Democrats, one has to wonder what that black minister has to say about the Democratic Party’s 150 years of racism, slavery, bigotry and segregation.I have a bluetooth headset when I am doing work around the house and in the yard and driving and I listen to YouTube debates, podcasts and one of those is a black person who is a former minister who saw the light. He said Christianity was used to keep black people in poverty by telling them it was a cross to bear, and they would be rewarded in heaven. Unfortunately human history is such that even slaves were made to believe that nonsense and blacks accepted their lot in life of poverty as a "virtue".
94% of blacks would disagree with you that Democrats are the party of racism, slavery, bigotry and segregation.Given that 94% of blacks vote for Democrats, one has to wonder what that black minister has to say about the Democratic Party’s 150 years of racism, slavery, bigotry and segregation.