Very odd experience with a female coworker who I thought was interested in me

[HereWeGoAgain]

a woman being polite and flirty looks the same so how the fuck am I suppsoed to know the difference??????????/

If you haven't figured out the difference by now......

 

[danielpalos]

There was this woman at my job who always appeared to be attracted to me and would chat it up with me at my cubicle every chance she got. So back in september we were both transferred to different locations and I figured since we no longer worked at the same location maybe I could let her know I am interested in knowing her better outside the job. So 3 weeks after we were transferred she sent a work email asking......"how are you liking your new location?" So I was like.........."oh yeah she was thinking about me and havent seen me in 3 weeks oh she is definitely interested. So about 10 days later I suggested talking offline and gave my number because I want to talk about non work stuff. That was October 21st. You know this dumb bitch has never responded to that email or text me? So what the fuck was she emailing me for asking how I am doing? I swear women are so fucking weird

She doesn't really believe in equality or she got busy?

 

[Dr Grump]

Going by your responses on here (calling her a dumb bitch etc), sounds like she dodged a bullet.

 

[fbj]

She wanted a business/professional relationship...not a personal relationship.

Obviously you held some kind of knowledge of the workplace she could use to further her career. When you offered a personal relationship she bolted. Because that was something she didn't want... apparently you missed every signal she threw on that front.

The fact that I was on her mind and she had not seen me in 3 weeks made me think for sure she wanted to see me outside the job

 

[fbj]

If you haven't figured out the difference by now......

There is no difference, they look the same

 

[fbj]

She doesn't really believe in equality or she got busy?

I sent that email on 10/21 and it is a month later.

 

[JohnDB]

The fact that I was on her mind and she had not seen me in 3 weeks made me think for sure she wanted to see me outside the job

Networking is one of those things that most people do... mostly because jobs come and go so quickly these days. I've used it extensively for my careers. (Yes plural)

Because when leadership changes there's a desire by new leadership to build a team of people who have specific skill sets if they become available or can be made available.

Leadership is usually hired because of a tendency to work in a very specific fashion to obtain specific goals in a specific manner. IE This leader is a great hatchet man/woman and will cause entrenched labor to quit. Or This person will streamline the operations by installing a remote computing platform and working out all the bugs.

Aligning with managers looking to rise is really commonplace.

This lady might use some "attraction" to entice you to move with her into running a department as a subordinate or wondering if you are ladder climbing to use her as a subordinate. Every time I step into leadership there's a host of people wanting to join in as subordinates because of the environment I create.

With the "great resignation" going on there's a lot of restructuring of management and labor. But the specialized labor pools aren't exactly that deep either... crossing paths of the same individuals over and over happens a lot. So making friends is a really good idea...as well as keeping in touch and letting people know how to contact you.

Which is why LinkedIn has become very popular.

 

[fbj]

Networking is one of those things that most people do... mostly because jobs come and go so quickly these days. I've used it extensively for my careers. (Yes plural)

Because when leadership changes there's a desire by new leadership to build a team of people who have specific skill sets if they become available or can be made available.

Leadership is usually hired because of a tendency to work in a very specific fashion to obtain specific goals in a specific manner. IE This leader is a great hatchet man/woman and will cause entrenched labor to quit. Or This person will streamline the operations by installing a remote computing platform and working out all the bugs.

Aligning with managers looking to rise is really commonplace.

This lady might use some "attraction" to entice you to move with her into running a department as a subordinate or wondering if you are ladder climbing to use her as a subordinate. Every time I step into leadership there's a host of people wanting to join in as subordinates because of the environment I create.

With the "great resignation" going on there's a lot of restructuring of management and labor. But the specialized labor pools aren't exactly that deep either... crossing paths of the same individuals over and over happens a lot. So making friends is a really good idea...as well as keeping in touch and letting people know how to contact you.

Which is why LinkedIn has become very popular.

But why disappear and just say I am married or have a man instead of disappearing like a fucking retard? Its not like I sent her a dick pic through email or asked her out for coffee.

 

[JohnDB]

But why disappear and just say I am married or have a man instead of disappearing like a fucking retard? Its not like I sent her a dick pic through email or asked her out for coffee.

Those things might not be true...she isn't exactly wanting to be a liar...

Lots of women behave in a slightly flirty fashion for a lot of reasons other than actually wanting to have a romantic or sexual relationship.
Before the whole sex discrimination and subsequently sueing for sexual harassment it was the norm for women in the workplace to behave in much flirtyer behavior than the norm these days. It's part of the female psyche to do so.
Outside of an office environment women will shove their boobs or wiggle their butt at any and every guy she wants something from even if she has no desire whatsoever of ever having any sort of relationship with him.

Men have physical strength & strategy and women have manipulation and cunning. These are the basic "go to" behaviors for thousands of years for the TWO sexes. (I ain't got a clue about the ones claiming that they are something else...they are just nuts)
And just like you believed that "something more" was possible for having a relationship with her...that was intentional but not necessarily a desired effect.

IDK how old you are but trust me when I say...your time is coming when the women will chase you instead of you chasing them. And their whole goal will be to get you to chase them so they can catch you. Especially if you have a decent career and are free from debilitating vices like alcohol, tobacco, gambling, or porn.

 

[fbj]

Those things might not be true...she isn't exactly wanting to be a liar...

Lots of women behave in a slightly flirty fashion for a lot of reasons other than actually wanting to have a romantic or sexual relationship.
Before the whole sex discrimination and subsequently sueing for sexual harassment it was the norm for women in the workplace to behave in much flirtyer behavior than the norm these days. It's part of the female psyche to do so.
Outside of an office environment women will shove their boobs or wiggle their butt at any and every guy she wants something from even if she has no desire whatsoever of ever having any sort of relationship with him.

Men have physical strength & strategy and women have manipulation and cunning. These are the basic "go to" behaviors for thousands of years for the TWO sexes. (I ain't got a clue about the ones claiming that they are something else...they are just nuts)
And just like you believed that "something more" was possible for having a relationship with her...that was intentional but not necessarily a desired effect.

IDK how old you are but trust me when I say...your time is coming when the women will chase you instead of you chasing them. And their whole goal will be to get you to chase them so they can catch you. Especially if you have a decent career and are free from debilitating vices like alcohol, tobacco, gambling, or porn.

And the only reason I gave my number because we were no longer working at the same work location

 

[Remodeling Maidiac]

If a girl talks to you, you own her.

That's always been my belief.

Lol

Omfg too funny but perfect for the dumbass op

 

[sparky]

anna one anna two.....



~S~

 

[AMart]

There was this woman at my job who always appeared to be attracted to me and would chat it up with me at my cubicle every chance she got. So back in september we were both transferred to different locations and I figured since we no longer worked at the same location maybe I could let her know I am interested in knowing her better outside the job. So 3 weeks after we were transferred she sent a work email asking......"how are you liking your new location?" So I was like.........."oh yeah she was thinking about me and havent seen me in 3 weeks oh she is definitely interested. So about 10 days later I suggested talking offline and gave my number because I want to talk about non work stuff. That was October 21st. You know this dumb bitch has never responded to that email or text me? So what the fuck was she emailing me for asking how I am doing? I swear women are so fucking weird

Call her and ask her on a date. With coworkers don't text or email or leave a VM about dating stuff.

 

[fbj]

Call her and ask her on a date. With coworkers don't text or email or leave a VM about dating stuff.

You are special needs and should log out and stop posting immediatlely