As a rule I avoid conflicts in the Lounge and the CS which is why I have stopped posting here.
But that didn't mean that I stopped reading the posts. I see the pain in here that Foxy is feeling. I understand the frustration that Stat, Mertex, Wolfsister, Sarah and other liberals are experiencing. I appreciate the advice to "get over it and move on" from Ringel.
But I am still going to butt in and have my say because I think that there are things that need to be said and by the time I am finished some of you are going to change your minds about who you think I am.
Yes, I think that Foxy is a fool. She is not alone either. There are a whole bunch of fools in here and I am going to tell you why.
Like everything worth having in life you have to work on it. And it requires constant maintenance. To all intents and purposes Foxy has done a great job at setting up the CS and maintaining it for 4+ years. For that she is to be commended. And yes, everyone here who has contributed has played a role in making the CS what it was.
However the CS is where it is today because the lesson of the Tavern was either ignored or forgotten.
The Tavern imploded because the OP failed to maintain the necessary discipline to keep it running smoothly. And as the Tavern OP pointed out it was up to the participants to step in and maintain discipline when she was away.
The same situation arose in here. Politics reared it's ugly face and it wasn't immediately slapped down. That wasn't only Foxy's job. It wasn't only the job of those who were offended either. It was everyone's job to report the offense as soon as they saw it even if they personally agreed with it.
And that is why I am calling everyone in here a fool. Including myself! Yes, I should have reported it even when I discovered it post facto but I didn't. Shame on me!
We are all the fools here for NOT doing what we should have done to maintain the CS as a place where politics is not allowed under any circumstances whatsoever. Irrespective of whether or not it is your side that does it they are ruining the CS for everyone.
The problem is that it is still happening. The partisan posts are still occurring. I saw one right before I started this post. It has gone beyond the point of reporting all of the posts that violate the Lounge rules. The wound is raw and no one is reaching out to take the hand of their enemy and offer to forgive them for their trespasses. We fools don't have what it takes to be bigger than ourselves.
So yes, I feel like a fool!
Maybe a few of you feel like fools too.
Because collectively we have allowed what was a good thing to become tainted and poisoned and partisan.
That mistake is not going to happen again while I am around because fool me once...
Peace
DT