Actually states give benefits to marrieds in anticipation of enticing a mother and father both in a lifelong bond for the best statistical mental health for children they know will arrive between men and women. "Gay marriage" therefore is by definition "Anti-marriage" since it exists to legally deprive anticipated children of either a mother or father for life.Christians are as responsible for gay marriage as the gays. If it were not for Christians allowing there religious union, under god, to become a state controlled contract, complete with all of the state given rights/benefits therein, gays would not be clamoring to get those same benefits.
If the Christians of the past would not have traded their God of the Bible for the God of the state we would not be here.
You have made your beds...now stop hogging the covers, Adam and Steve have to work in the morning.