What I take issue with is the secrecy. I read the book "Secret Ceremonies" and the authoress was immediately excommunicated from the Mormon Church when it was published. I do not believe in organized religion. I think that Joseph Smith was likely very schizhophrenic and had delusions, hallucinations, you name it. If anybody came up with the stuff he did today, they'd be locked up in a mental hospital.
Keeping the inside of the temples secret only leads one to believe you have something to hide. I've been in St. Patrick's Cathedral in New York City. Nothing secretive about it.
Not to say that most Mormons I've ever know have truly been very nice people and they don't preach at all, which is nice, but I just don't believe any of what they have to say.
I can see your point.... Now try to see mine....
So you've read this book called "Secret Ceremonies"... What about the book causes you to take issue with the religion. Obviously this lady has issues with us. What were her issues?
There are things which are very sacred which should not be thrown out in the open to people who do not understand them. That is why we don't openly talk about the ceremonies.
But I've said this before and I'll say it again. If someone from the outside were to watch the ceremonies inside the temple they wouldn't be overwhelmed by any of it. They would learn more about Christ and our beliefs on the afterlife but that's all there is to it.
There have been rumors of all kinds of weird things that happen simply because outsiders love to speculate. But there is no strange ceremonies, nothing sexual in the remotest way, no blood, no weirdness of any kind. It is simple, meditative and quiet. All the ceremonies are symbolic of our commitment to follow the commandments of God and prepare for the next life. That is all there is to say on the matter.
Now you say that you have met nothing but nice people from our faith but don't believe anything we say. What is it that you don't believe that we have to say? We're so nice and pleasant, but certainly not to be trusted. That's an interesting combination indeed.
Now your claims of Joseph Smith being a fantastic combination of schitzofrenic, delusional, hallucinative, and anything else you can think of is very indicative of a major flaw in your thinking.
Schitzofrenic~ manifests itself with auditory hallucinations while others are watching and telling others they are seeing or hearing things while those around them do not. Manifested by scattered conversation, disorderly speech and loud or fearful tones, paranoia(which is unbased fear).
If you knew anything about Joseph Smith, or the writings he wrote or the orations he gave in great detail and eloquence, you would know that it was impossible for someone as calm and collected and organized as he, to fit the diagnosis of Schitzofrenia. He never had scattered or disorderly speech or paranoia. His precautions taken to protect himself and his family were based on real attempts on his life and real assaults he suffered, so paranoia is a lable impossible to put on Smith. To prounounce your own death in advance is to put paranoia to the test. He was proven a prophet, not paranoid as the prediction came true as he was murdered shortly thereafter.
You could accuse him of hallucinations and I would at least have to respect that as a person who doesn't believe Smith saw the visions he saw. That's something for you to find out on your own between you and God. No one can have the revelations for you. You'd have to have them yourself. That's fine, we'll agree to disagree on this one.
Delusional(from Wiki):
Delusional disorder is an uncommon psychiatric condition in which patients present with circumscribed symptoms of non-bizarre delusions, but with the absence of prominent hallucinations and no thought disorder, mood disorder, or significant flattening effect.[1] For the diagnosis to be made, auditory and visual hallucinations cannot be prominent, though olfactory or tactile hallucinations related to the content of the delusion may be present.[2]
Very interesting, so we've already ruled out Schitzophrenia, but wait, Joseph claimed to have visions. So either he had real visions, or lied about having them, or was having hallucinations, which by definition would exclude him from being delusional by diagnosis. Pay attention to how delusion is manifested below (from Wiki):
To be diagnosed with delusional disorder, the delusion or delusions cannot be due to the effects of a drug, medication, or general medical condition, and delusional disorder cannot be diagnosed in an individual previously diagnosed with schizophrenia. A person with delusional disorder may be high functioning in daily life and may not exhibit odd or bizarre behavior aside from these delusions. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) defines six subtypes of the disorder characterized as erotomanic (believes that someone famous is in love with him/her), grandiose (believes that he/she is the greatest, strongest, fastest, most intelligent person ever), jealous (believes that the love partner is cheating on him/her), persecutory (believes that someone is following him/her to do some harm in some way), somatic (believes that he/she has a disease or medical condition), and mixed, i.e., having features of more than one subtypes.[2] Delusions also occur as symptoms of many other mental disorders, especially the other psychotic disorders.
Ok so we've found that there are six types of deluded persons. Which one would you ascribe to Smith?
1. erotomanic(ruled out as no documented or accused examples found)
2. grandiose(ruled out as the only grandiose ideas he had came from visions which deluded people don't have as he claimed to have seen God. We've established deluded people don't have visions. Schitzophrenics and hallucinators do)
3. jealous(ruled out as he had no documented jealousies)
4. persecutory(ruled out as his persecutions actually did happen)
5. somatic(ruled out as he was fit and never thought he was sick unless he actually was)
6 mixed(ruled out as he had none of the above)
So it is clear that with a little mental effort on your part you will realize your initial statement was lazy and irresponsible. Please try harder.