Skeptic: two words ~ grow up. The persecution complex gets tiring for all of us, you know. And your ending sentences only support the concept that Mormons applies to followers of Joseph Smith. Try again.
OK, famous anti-Mormon sites that hates the LDS.
Mormon Church. n.
Mormon: Definition from Answers.com 1. An ancient prophet believed to have compiled a sacred history of the Americas, which were translated and published by Joseph Smith as the Book of Mormon in 1830.
2. A member of the Mormon Church. Also called Latter-day Saint
[which the RLDS loved to call themselves]. adj. Of or relating to the Mormons, their religion, or the Mormon Church.
The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language
Mor·mon (môrmn) Mormon Church n. 1. An ancient prophet believed to have compiled a sacred history of the Americas, which were translated and published by Joseph Smith as the Book of Mormon in 1830.
2. A member of the Mormon Church. Also called Latter-day Saint. adj. Of or relating to the Mormons, their religion, or the Mormon Church. Mormon·ism n. The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition copyright ©2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Updated in 2009. Published by Houghton Mifflin Company. All rights reserved.
Another example that 'Mormon' is not an exclusive property of the LDS Church is how it is used in history works. One respected scholar defines Mormonism in terms as those who "still practiced those tenants marking them as a sect of nineteenth-century Mormonism: temple ritual, economic communitarianism, and polygamy." Scholars about Mormon history including active temple-card temple going LDS historians, such as Richard E. Bennett and Richard E. Bushman and Todd Compton, do not use it exclusively any more than inactive LDS historians like Will Bagley, or excommunicated former LDS historians like Mike Quinn or Lavina F. Anderson, or non-LDS Mormon historians like Steven Shields or Ron Romig or Newell Bringhurst or Bill Russell, or non-LDS historians beloved by the LDS like Jan Shipps.
Skeptic, simply put, you LDS can use your definitions as you wish, but when you put them in the public forum, do not think they will be automatically excepted or that you rebut successfully. The rest of the world is not held hostage to 13mm peoples' beliefs.
And, oh, all should note that when a LDS defender starts talking about "apostate" or "anti-Mormon" this or that, you will know automatically such person is on tenuous ground and knows it. In my research, I have seen a concerted effort by LDS folks to try to dominate the 'definition' game with a small amount of success. The real place to look is how those who deal with the term socially, politically, culturally, economically, and philosophically use it.