"Original sin" and term "living in sin" are a couple of examples that come to mind. I am sure I can think of a few more if I want to. I do not have a problem with it but I see it for what it is: Control
Original Sin simply designates the fallen condition of man--i.e., we tend to do what is easiest, not what is best. There is no shame in that, it is simply a heads up.
I lived in sin. It was one of the more stressful times of my life because I didn't know if I had a commitment, or did not have one. If I became pregnant would I be capable of raising a child on my own, or have the courage to put it up for adoption. Do you really think God wanted me to have these worries, or do you think a better plan may have been for me to wait for the commitment and the knowledge if a pregnancy occurred the child would be born into a stable home?
During this time, it was help and encouragement I received--not shame--a further understanding it is the blessings, not worries, of life God wants us to have.