I don't know or want to know what you do for a living. What I have always done, no matter what job I have had, is continue to work with my hands. And I am good with my hands.
I have an aptitude for working with my hands. Mechanic, carpenter, plumber, electrician, machinist. Even welder for a short time. Though truthfully, not a very good welder.
Do you know what "aptitude" is? My future SIL has no aptitude for working with his hands.
I have tried to teach him basics in mechanics and carpentry. Ain't happening.
So yea, do I wish he had skill sets for working with his hands. Absolutely. I want that for lots of young men I have met.
But you know what? When I grew up (back in the dark ages) every single high school in the city I lived in had a variety of shops that students had to attend and learn from. I got my machinist apprenticeship while still in high school. You could be a mechanic, printer, machinist, or carpenter. Drafting and electronics were also offered.
Those courses are no longer offered. And haven't been offered for years. And if you don't learn some of those skills and have in interest in them when you are young, then you look to college to give you a skill set to make a living. And from what I have seen, college is more geared to getting money than teaching how to make money.
That is a declining standard of living. When the schools young men attend no longer teach and train for skill sets that are in demand, that they can make a decent living doing them, when they used to do that automatically, that is a declining standard.
And that was the topic; a declining standard of living. Because the education needed isn't the education offered.
That is a decline.
I wish my future SIL was a doctor or a lawyer. That ain't happening either. But he still wants to be a hard worker, good provider and make a decent living. Nothing wrong with that.
Just a lot harder to do today. That is the decline.
Welding was an example and certainly not a cure all.
If everyone was a welder then there wouldn't be a demand for welders.
I know what aptitude is ... And what I do makes no difference towards anyone else's aptitude.
If it did ... I would suggest that everyone spend 3-7 years in the military and gain skills that help them advance in whatever field they choose afterwards.
It would also give them the opportunity to understand that most things are not impossible ... And "can't" never did anything.
Applying yourself increases your aptitude towards any occupational advancement ... And what is declining is the push necessary to unseat half-assed wanna-be's and get them moving.
My first job was as a draftsman for a civil engineer in high school (so the courses are still available).
My degree (earned with the GI Bill) is a Bachelor's of Science in Psychology.
It makes a wonderful wall decoration in my office and that is about all it is worth.
The problem is that most young people want to be doctors, lawyers, CEO's or high paid executives ... And have the stupid idea that comes just as a result of having a college degree ... There is no longer the idea that you work your way up.
A degree is necessary to even be looked at for just about any kind of job now ... So what makes young think they are going to leave school and walk into a job that fills their every need?
If your objection to the situation is what education is offered ... Well thank the damn government for that ... Because that is their plan.
If your SIL wants to be a hard worker and good provider making a decent living ... Tell him to find something he loves and open a business doing it ... Or providing goods and services for those who do.
It is as simple as that ... And the second you start making excuses about how it cannot be done ... Is the instant you can point a finger right back at the problem.
Either do what is necessary to make what needs to happen come about ... Or shut up whining about it being someone else's fault.
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Dude, what's with the ******* attitude? All I said was that if there are jobs for machinists and carpenters and electricians (which there are), and employers can't find (which they can't) competent young men and women for entry level, good jobs in those fields, then the education system has failed the young men and women. It has DECLINED.
That lack of offering (at the high school level) or requiring education of this type represents a DECLINE in standards from recent times past. In my school district and the surrounding school districts (in Ohio) they do not have mandatory shop classes of any sort any more.
If your district has them still, good for you.
But you must be hanging with the high earners kids if all they want to do is be doctors and lawyers and CEO's and Indian Chiefs, cause the three college kids around my house and their friends, they just hope for a job in their career paths. Or maybe an internship when they first graduate. You know, so they can be the CEO in 6 months.
Again, I thought the topic was the declining standard of living here in America. If you think graduating from high school with out the correct skill sets to move into the job market and make a decent living, that NOT HAVING that education level does not represent a Decline in our standards, what can I say. Kids USED to be educated at the high school level to fill skilled trades and semi skilled tradesmen positions. Good middle class jobs.
Who you want to blame the decline in education on, that's a different topic.
But the kids I know are hard working achievers. Athletes, work full time. go to school full time. They will be fine. It's just not as easy.
Sounds like you've been around shit heads for kids? You know, if they're lazy and think they should have started at the top and so forth.
What can you say. Kids and declining standards.