Simply getting something that you want isn't really the point of gifts. The point is someone loving you enough to put the thought and effort into getting you something you wouldn't necessarily get for yourself.
My favorite gift that I've ever gotten from my husband was a breadmaker. Sure, I could have just gone and bought one myself, but it never would have occurred to me that I wanted to do so. I told him once how my grandma used to bake bread when I was a kid, and I always loved the smell and the taste of fresh bread, and I was sorry I didn't have time to bake my own. So he decided to get me a breadmaker so I could still have the smell and taste without the time and effort to do it by hand.
Meh...I dont really see the big deal.
I tell Her what I want,she tells me what she wants.
There's no surprise in anyway shape or form.
We sometimes get one thing that we both want.