Not a reasonable policy.
It is quite reasonable and a policy you will follow, as outlined by our laws. If there is a question in your mind as to a woman's or girl's age, then don't get involved. If you do and she IS under age, you WILL be held responsible for your irresponsible actions. I don't feel bad for you one bit. In fact, I am completely in support of the laws regarding sex with teens, and I would like to see it be 18 across the board.
Now, tell me what your reason is for fighting about this again?
1. It's unreasonable to expect men to know a females age by looking, or to ask her for id.
2. older teenage girls are capable of giving consent, despite what the law says and are unlikely to be traumatize by consensual sex.
Consent is a matter of law, so your defense of rape is without merit. What YOU deem "reasonable" is irrelevant, scumbag.
Legal Consent is a matter of law.
Actual consent is .......
Legal consent is actual consent, brainless.
In some cases, such as Jerry Springer's girlfriend, no it is not.