Singles bar

[Diana1180]

I wait like a day, and mostly people text me now smh, I haven't called a girl outright in years until we saw each other more than once.

I think I was born in the wrong generation....

I mean I don't like how things are, I'm just playing the hand I am dealt.

But you dont have to play with that hand. Deal your own cards.

If you want a woman who likes alot of attention, likes flowers etc (because thats what is in your nature) then wait for that woman. Dont play the game. Just be yourself.

 

[Ava]

Same here... lol

Had a date. Guy bought me flowers. complimented me all night. At the end, asked when he could see me again.

crickets.

Getting to be a pattern.

But... had a few awesome Girls Night Outs.

I hooked up with a girl last Thursday, she came over, we had sex, she left, never heard from her again. Turns out she has a boyfriend and their pretty into each other, why she slept with me I have no idea. It honestly feels like a dream, like it didn't even happen. I can pull the occasional lay hat trick, but as far as finding something meaningful I am lost and have no clue how to do it. I have met women at wine tasting events and other meet ups and had good conversations, exchanged numbers, and than absolutely nothing happens, I can't call it.

You never can call it. Just have fun man. Shit rattles out how it does when it does. After my busy time at work, im going to Arizona with the girl I have been seeing and her kid. This weekend im in Lubbock with her and her family.

That is the best news. I am loving your new life.

 

[High_Gravity]

Interesting.

To this day, I would never call a guy in the beginning of a courtship nor would I accept a date request via text.

I am very hard to get. I don't play it. I am it. The more effort he puts into me, the more I like it. And that means, voice time, on a phone call. And a follow up call right after the first date. I like when a man is the pursuer and I know how to let him know if I am no longer interested, without offending him. I care about people's feelings if I care about them.

See thats the total opposite of the women I have encountered, I am 32 and I mainly deal with women in their 20s and early 30s, this is how they are.

And I am only 37. I dont expect to have attention 24/7 but showing that youre interested in me is a plus lol. If you only text me, go days without contact or I feel like I am the one always trying to make plans....I move on.

Most women I encounter just seem to want to take things "casual", whatever the hell that means.

 

[High_Gravity]

I think I was born in the wrong generation....

I mean I don't like how things are, I'm just playing the hand I am dealt.

But you dont have to play with that hand. Deal your own cards.

If you want a woman who likes alot of attention, likes flowers etc (because thats what is in your nature) then wait for that woman. Dont play the game. Just be yourself.

I think that woman is in a more conservative country like Korea lol!

 

[High_Gravity]

Same here... lol

Had a date. Guy bought me flowers. complimented me all night. At the end, asked when he could see me again.

crickets.

Getting to be a pattern.

But... had a few awesome Girls Night Outs.

I hooked up with a girl last Thursday, she came over, we had sex, she left, never heard from her again. Turns out she has a boyfriend and their pretty into each other, why she slept with me I have no idea. It honestly feels like a dream, like it didn't even happen. I can pull the occasional lay hat trick, but as far as finding something meaningful I am lost and have no clue how to do it. I have met women at wine tasting events and other meet ups and had good conversations, exchanged numbers, and than absolutely nothing happens, I can't call it.

You never can call it. Just have fun man. Shit rattles out how it does when it does. After my busy time at work, im going to Arizona with the girl I have been seeing and her kid. This weekend im in Lubbock with her and her family.

I am happy for you my dude.

 

[Statistikhengst]

Same here... lol

Had a date. Guy bought me flowers. complimented me all night. At the end, asked when he could see me again.

crickets.

Getting to be a pattern.

But... had a few awesome Girls Night Outs.

I hooked up with a girl last Thursday, she came over, we had sex, she left, never heard from her again. Turns out she has a boyfriend and their pretty into each other, why she slept with me I have no idea. It honestly feels like a dream, like it didn't even happen. I can pull the occasional lay hat trick, but as far as finding something meaningful I am lost and have no clue how to do it. I have met women at wine tasting events and other meet ups and had good conversations, exchanged numbers, and than absolutely nothing happens, I can't call it.

You never can call it. Just have fun man. Shit rattles out how it does when it does. After my busy time at work, im going to Arizona with the girl I have been seeing and her kid. This weekend im in Lubbock with her and her family.

 

[Diana1180]

See thats the total opposite of the women I have encountered, I am 32 and I mainly deal with women in their 20s and early 30s, this is how they are.

And I am only 37. I dont expect to have attention 24/7 but showing that youre interested in me is a plus lol. If you only text me, go days without contact or I feel like I am the one always trying to make plans....I move on.

Most women I encounter just seem to want to take things "casual", whatever the hell that means.

Funny...most of the men I meet just want something "casual". Which means they only want to call you when they are horny. Thankfully those are easy to spot.

 

[Ava]

I think I was born in the wrong generation....

I mean I don't like how things are, I'm just playing the hand I am dealt.

But you dont have to play with that hand. Deal your own cards.

If you want a woman who likes alot of attention, likes flowers etc (because thats what is in your nature) then wait for that woman. Dont play the game. Just be yourself.

Sound advice.

I always say, I play the hand I have dealt myself. That is because I accept responsibility for my life and hold only myself accountable. My life is up to me.

 

[earlycuyler]

ok, maybe I am doing it all wrong.

So if you are interested in a girl and you go on a date and have a great time and both express the desire for a second date. (No sex) Are you going to do that stupid 3 day rule and not call her because you are trying to be aloof?

I wait like a day, and mostly people text me now smh, I haven't called a girl outright in years until we saw each other more than once.

Interesting.

To this day, I would never call a guy in the beginning of a courtship nor would I accept a date request via text.

I am very hard to get. I don't play it. I am it. The more effort he puts into me, the more I like it. And that means, voice time, on a phone call. And a follow up call right after the first date. I like when a man is the pursuer and I know how to let him know if I am no longer interested, without offending him. I care about people's feelings if I care about them.

Damn right. If your into someone the least you can do is call them, or better yet say it to there face.

 

[High_Gravity]

And I am only 37. I dont expect to have attention 24/7 but showing that youre interested in me is a plus lol. If you only text me, go days without contact or I feel like I am the one always trying to make plans....I move on.

Most women I encounter just seem to want to take things "casual", whatever the hell that means.

Funny...most of the men I meet just want something "casual". Which means they only want to call you when they are horny. Thankfully those are easy to spot.

"Casual" is the new word of the day lol, but the funny thing is these same women complain that these same casual men won't commit lol, but the guy who wants is left in the dog house, funny how that works.

 

[Diana1180]

Most women I encounter just seem to want to take things "casual", whatever the hell that means.

Funny...most of the men I meet just want something "casual". Which means they only want to call you when they are horny. Thankfully those are easy to spot.

"Casual" is the new word of the day lol, but the funny thing is these same women complain that these same casual men won't commit lol, but the guy who wants is left in the dog house, funny how that works.

Its a vicious cycle lol.

Which is why I stay single.

 

[earlycuyler]

Most women I encounter just seem to want to take things "casual", whatever the hell that means.

Funny...most of the men I meet just want something "casual". Which means they only want to call you when they are horny. Thankfully those are easy to spot.

"Casual" is the new word of the day lol, but the funny thing is these same women complain that these same casual men won't commit lol, but the guy who wants is left in the dog house, funny how that works.

Face it dude, chicks are bat shit crazy, but we have to deal with them because they got what we want. Remaining aloof has worked for me so far. Try that.

 

[Diana1180]

Hey. We arent ALL crazy lol.

 

[Statistikhengst]

Hey. We arent ALL crazy lol.

I am glad to know that.

Whew!

 

[Diana1180]

Hey. We arent ALL crazy lol.

I am glad to know that.

Whew!

I took my meds today... we are fine.

 

[Andylusion]

Funny...most of the men I meet just want something "casual". Which means they only want to call you when they are horny. Thankfully those are easy to spot.

"Casual" is the new word of the day lol, but the funny thing is these same women complain that these same casual men won't commit lol, but the guy who wants is left in the dog house, funny how that works.

Its a vicious cycle lol.

Which is why I stay single.

Exactly. Single is the way to be.

 

[High_Gravity]

I wait like a day, and mostly people text me now smh, I haven't called a girl outright in years until we saw each other more than once.

Interesting.

To this day, I would never call a guy in the beginning of a courtship nor would I accept a date request via text.

I am very hard to get. I don't play it. I am it. The more effort he puts into me, the more I like it. And that means, voice time, on a phone call. And a follow up call right after the first date. I like when a man is the pursuer and I know how to let him know if I am no longer interested, without offending him. I care about people's feelings if I care about them.

Damn right. If your into someone the least you can do is call them, or better yet say it to there face.

From my experience that is the worst thing you can do.

 

[High_Gravity]

Funny...most of the men I meet just want something "casual". Which means they only want to call you when they are horny. Thankfully those are easy to spot.

"Casual" is the new word of the day lol, but the funny thing is these same women complain that these same casual men won't commit lol, but the guy who wants is left in the dog house, funny how that works.

Face it dude, chicks are bat shit crazy, but we have to deal with them because they got what we want. Remaining aloof has worked for me so far. Try that.

Thats what I'm doing pretty much.

 

[Diana1180]

"Casual" is the new word of the day lol, but the funny thing is these same women complain that these same casual men won't commit lol, but the guy who wants is left in the dog house, funny how that works.

Face it dude, chicks are bat shit crazy, but we have to deal with them because they got what we want. Remaining aloof has worked for me so far. Try that.

Thats what I'm doing pretty much.

And hows it working for ya?

I mean other than the hook ups....

 

[High_Gravity]

Face it dude, chicks are bat shit crazy, but we have to deal with them because they got what we want. Remaining aloof has worked for me so far. Try that.

Thats what I'm doing pretty much.

And hows it working for ya?

I mean other than the hook ups....

So/so, get laid every month or so but nothing meaningful, the thing is last time I tried to actually date a girl and show interest, brought flowers, paid for the meal etc she ended up friend zoning me and I was pissed, I thought we had chemistry and looked good together but shes not for me. I promised myself that would never happen again.