Thats what I'm doing pretty much.
And hows it working for ya?
I mean other than the hook ups....
So/so, get laid every month or so but nothing meaningful, the thing is last time I tried to actually date a girl and show interest, brought flowers, paid for the meal etc she ended up friend zoning me and I was pissed, I thought we had chemistry and looked good together but shes not for me. I promised myself that would never happen again.
I'm not sure that's a good take away. Yeah, it hurt to do that and end up finding out she wasn't interested.
But saying that you are not going to try for the right kind of relationship, just means you'll end up with the empty meaningless relationship forever.
The good things in life are hard. No one got to a good place, without going through the difficult and challenging parts, and I wager that Marriage with a good woman, is no different.
If the really good stuff in life was all easy, and painless, everyone would have million dollar homes, six-figure incomes, and absolutely wonderful marriages. Right?