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[earlycuyler]

[MENTION=32620]earlycuyler[/MENTION]

This whole thread sounds sad and lonely. Not just earlycuyler. The whole tone of not liking the opposite sex.

Sometimes when your single you get lonely. Its part of the package.

Frankly, I think it's just talk. I think if any of these guys hit it off with the one they'd been hoping for, they'd just be totally twitterpated.

I dont deny that at all. Just not out looking. And children should not be bring in on date two.

 

[BDBoop]

Sometimes when your single you get lonely. Its part of the package.

Frankly, I think it's just talk. I think if any of these guys hit it off with the one they'd been hoping for, they'd just be totally twitterpated.

I dont deny that at all. Just not out looking. And children should not be bring in on date two.

I haven't seen you "bad mouthing" women, either. I was addressing what Luddy was seeing.

 

[High_Gravity]

Sometimes when your single you get lonely. Its part of the package.

Frankly, I think it's just talk. I think if any of these guys hit it off with the one they'd been hoping for, they'd just be totally twitterpated.

I dont deny that at all. Just not out looking. And children should not be bring in on date two.

What wer seeing here bro is an implosion of single moms desperate for a father to their children. I hardly know any women my age without kids.

 

[AyeCantSeeYou]

What wer seeing here bro is an implosion of single moms desperate for a father to their children. I hardly know any women my age without kids.

Not ALL single moms are out looking, nor are all desperate for a father for their kids. The smart ones, which most men will never see, are busy raising their kids and staying out of the 'meat market' atmosphere that some also call dating.

 

[BDBoop]

What wer seeing here bro is an implosion of single moms desperate for a father to their children. I hardly know any women my age without kids.

Not ALL single moms are out looking, nor are all desperate for a father for their kids. The smart ones, which most men will never see, are busy raising their kids and staying out of the 'meat market' atmosphere that some also call dating.

Exactly.

That's why I keep trying to shove the guys off to meetup.com, where you can socialize and make friends who share similar interests, and dare I say possibly meet a woman that's not out cruising for the next daddy.

 

[High_Gravity]

What wer seeing here bro is an implosion of single moms desperate for a father to their children. I hardly know any women my age without kids.

Not ALL single moms are out looking, nor are all desperate for a father for their kids. The smart ones, which most men will never see, are busy raising their kids and staying out of the 'meat market' atmosphere that some also call dating.

Oh I know not all of them are like that but so many are, especially the younger ones, their out there hunting.

 

[AyeCantSeeYou]

What wer seeing here bro is an implosion of single moms desperate for a father to their children. I hardly know any women my age without kids.

Not ALL single moms are out looking, nor are all desperate for a father for their kids. The smart ones, which most men will never see, are busy raising their kids and staying out of the 'meat market' atmosphere that some also call dating.

Oh I know not all of them are like that but so many are, especially the younger ones, their out there hunting.

I really hope you stay as far away from them as possible!

 

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What wer seeing here bro is an implosion of single moms desperate for a father to their children. I hardly know any women my age without kids.

Not ALL single moms are out looking, nor are all desperate for a father for their kids. The smart ones, which most men will never see, are busy raising their kids and staying out of the 'meat market' atmosphere that some also call dating.

Exactly.

That's why I keep trying to shove the guys off to meetup.com, where you can socialize and make friends who share similar interests, and dare I say possibly meet a woman that's not out cruising for the next daddy.

Unfortunately, most of the people who go to these meetups are lonely and vulnerable and oftentimes hook up for all the wrong reasons. It is important to learn to live with oneself in order to develop the skills needed to be selective in social situations.

 

[Ava]

Frankly, I think it's just talk. I think if any of these guys hit it off with the one they'd been hoping for, they'd just be totally twitterpated.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N12dH1lIE74

I dont deny that at all. Just not out looking. And children should not be bring in on date two.

What wer seeing here bro is an implosion of single moms desperate for a father to their children. I hardly know any women my age without kids.

Those would be the ones, who haven't read statistics on the failure of second or third marriages, which almost has the same percentages of divorce as the first marriage, only the difference is they have ended because of the step-children.

Think many times before looking for a partner for the wrong reasons.

 

[AyeCantSeeYou]

Reminds me of an old song that went something like:

Looking for love in all the wrong places.....

 

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[High_Gravity]

Not ALL single moms are out looking, nor are all desperate for a father for their kids. The smart ones, which most men will never see, are busy raising their kids and staying out of the 'meat market' atmosphere that some also call dating.

Oh I know not all of them are like that but so many are, especially the younger ones, their out there hunting.

I really hope you stay as far away from them as possible!

Oh yeah believe me I have been there, my ex gf of 5 years had kids and it was a disaster at the end, you can't drag your kids through hell for a relationship, thats selfish and I see people do it everyday.

 

[High_Gravity]

I dont deny that at all. Just not out looking. And children should not be bring in on date two.

What wer seeing here bro is an implosion of single moms desperate for a father to their children. I hardly know any women my age without kids.

Those would be the ones, who haven't read statistics on the failure of second or third marriages, which almost has the same percentages of divorce as the first marriage, only the difference is they have ended because of the step-children.

Think many times before looking for a partner for the wrong reasons.

What we are seeing here is the definition of insanity, they keep trying the same thing over with different men praying for a different result. Just because you meet a hot stranger at a bar with a big cock does not mean he should be the father of your kids.

 

[Diana1180]

Soo...I attempted a date this past Friday. Have known this guy a few years. We met at a party of a mutual friend, exchanged numbers and did the whole stupid FB friend thing. We just never went on a date till a few weeks ago we went to lunch. Had a great time and he asked me out again.

I had last Friday off so he asked if i wanted to spend the day together, meet for breakfast/brunch and go hiking or something. Awesome. SO I get there, we spend a few hours together and he gets a call. From his ex-wife. She just broke up with her bf of 3 yrs and "is beside herself". Can he get their son from school. Ok, thats fine, assuming our day will just end at 2 instead of later like planned. Nope, I asked what time he had to go. He said in like a half hour (which will be 1230) she needs someone to talk to. And he GOES.

I am a bit put out at this point but we exchange the pleasantries Friday night "Had a nice time..me too...etc"

Then nothing the rest of the weekend. I assume he is busy wiht his son. I didnt reach out. Yes, I was still put off but I wasnt the one cutting the date short. I kind of felt he wanted an out. But me being the girl, texted him Tuesday night. And he was mad at ME for not texting all weekend. "What? NOW your talkign to me? What did I do that was so bad. I guess I wasnt what you wanted"

Uh, what? I asked him if he had one of those special phones that only takes incoming texts/calls. And told him to put himself in my shoes before he decided to be mad at me. No response. Crickets lol.

The weekend before that...my date was horrible to.

I am starting to think I am the common denominator in all this mess lol.

 

[High_Gravity]

Soo...I attempted a date this past Friday. Have known this guy a few years. We met at a party of a mutual friend, exchanged numbers and did the whole stupid FB friend thing. We just never went on a date till a few weeks ago we went to lunch. Had a great time and he asked me out again.

I had last Friday off so he asked if i wanted to spend the day together, meet for breakfast/brunch and go hiking or something. Awesome. SO I get there, we spend a few hours together and he gets a call. From his ex-wife. She just broke up with her bf of 3 yrs and "is beside herself". Can he get their son from school. Ok, thats fine, assuming our day will just end at 2 instead of later like planned. Nope, I asked what time he had to go. He said in like a half hour (which will be 1230) she needs someone to talk to. And he GOES.

I am a bit put out at this point but we exchange the pleasantries Friday night "Had a nice time..me too...etc"

Then nothing the rest of the weekend. I assume he is busy wiht his son. I didnt reach out. Yes, I was still put off but I wasnt the one cutting the date short. I kind of felt he wanted an out. But me being the girl, texted him Tuesday night. And he was mad at ME for not texting all weekend. "What? NOW your talkign to me? What did I do that was so bad. I guess I wasnt what you wanted"

Uh, what? I asked him if he had one of those special phones that only takes incoming texts/calls. And told him to put himself in my shoes before he decided to be mad at me. No response. Crickets lol.

The weekend before that...my date was horrible to.

I am starting to think I am the common denominator in all this mess lol.

I can tell you this the older we get the more baggage people have with kids, exes etc etc I can tell you that being single and dating now is NOTHING like it was when I was in my early 20s and teen years, back than we just talked about the possibilities and the future in front of us. Now its about kids, the ex, the job etc etc etc its not you thats the problem, its that everyone has alot more baggage and walls to sort through now.

 

[Diana1180]

I can tell you this the older we get the more baggage people have with kids, exes etc etc I can tell you that being single and dating now is NOTHING like it was when I was in my early 20s and teen years, back than we just talked about the possibilities and the future in front of us. Now its about kids, the ex, the job etc etc etc its not you thats the problem, its that everyone has alot more baggage and walls to sort through now.

I know about baggage. I have been married and have a child.

But would you leave a date to go comfort your ex wife? A date you set up and planned.

 

[High_Gravity]

I can tell you this the older we get the more baggage people have with kids, exes etc etc I can tell you that being single and dating now is NOTHING like it was when I was in my early 20s and teen years, back than we just talked about the possibilities and the future in front of us. Now its about kids, the ex, the job etc etc etc its not you thats the problem, its that everyone has alot more baggage and walls to sort through now.

I know about baggage. I have been married and have a child.

But would you leave a date to go comfort your ex wife? A date you set up and planned.

I wouldnt but my relationship with my ex wife is very different, we are friends now but it took years to get here but I would not leave a night out for her. I would only do that if I had feelings for the person or if it was a kid issue if we had one.

 

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But would you leave a date to go comfort your ex wife? A date you set up and planned.

That should be a major flag.

 

[earlycuyler]

I can tell you this the older we get the more baggage people have with kids, exes etc etc I can tell you that being single and dating now is NOTHING like it was when I was in my early 20s and teen years, back than we just talked about the possibilities and the future in front of us. Now its about kids, the ex, the job etc etc etc its not you thats the problem, its that everyone has alot more baggage and walls to sort through now.

I know about baggage. I have been married and have a child.

But would you leave a date to go comfort your ex wife? A date you set up and planned.

Heeeellll no. Not ever.