Yeah I had never lost until I came here either. There are some very bizarre interpersonal and ego-sensitive dynamics at this site that trump game strategy.
Very true but I think ego and personalities occur in this game everywhere for example here's what someone said to Wake in a game he's in, not out of line really:
Don't fucking kid yourself. Nobody's worth more than a literal 100% confirmed town result. Clears > reads, despite what your ego might lead you to think.
Wake responded with this, which was over the top:
IS THAT THE ANGRY SWAMP EUNUCH I'M HEARING AGAIN? Maybe you should ask your girlfriend to pull that swamp crab out of your ass with a trusty FORCEPS. With its bulky pincer no longer clutching your throbbing dark meat, I reckon you'll start speaking with some vestige of civility again.
it is beyond the level of flaming allowed IMO. Some examples:
The I should play in the main thread the way I did in the QT post: You cannot play in the mainthread the way we did in the QT because we could discuss things without interference, including specific players, plot ploys/plans, share information, etc also free of scum.
Someone acting like I claimed to have 'Expertise": I have never claimed to be an expert, quite the opposite. I have pointed out that I am still learning the game, but I at least take into account what other players are possibly doing. It was one of the things I pointed out in my QT about SR--not being sure if she was playing off my rabble rousing or not.
The lying thing: I never said I wasn't in a neighborhood but some people could not let it go that they fell for a ruse that was not intended for them to begin with even when explained to them. I specifically cautioned RD & Ayes not to say they were not in a neighborhood to further my move because of the lying being bad for town. Nuance is lost on some people. Even when I explained my Day 1 get people talking by being abrasive move, nobody bought it so why bother discussing things with them?
Too many people just cannot play as a town team. They have no appreciation for strategy, tactics, sacrifice, etc. There is too much sitting on their hands with their noses in the air. The people who offer little to nothing should be the most suspicious in a game, but here they are the most protected. It is just bad for town game after game after game.