Well thank you very much. The chemo was working well until the doc tried to reduce the medication and the tests shot back up in the wrong direction again. So now I'm back on full chemo and it's pure hell. Taking some tests in December to see if it's working or not, or how well it's working. I appreciate you asking.
I'm never jealous what anybody makes in this country as long as they don't make it by force. If you ask your employer for a pay increase and you get it, it's because your employer believed you were worth it. When you have the ability to demand pay, your employer does not think you were worth it and you're forcing him or her to overpay you.
What is overpay? Our value as employees is what our employer could find somebody to replace us with. If you quit your job and your employer found somebody else to do the same job and quality of work that you did, that's all you were worth. If he has to pay somebody more money to replace you, you were correct, you were being underpaid. If he can find somebody to work for less money doing the same job, you were overpaid.
But we at least agree on something: If you are not happy with the money you are making, you simply go out and find another job. If you can't find a better paying job, then that's all your labor is worth in the market.