Proverbs 22:6 Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.
Perfect example of the OPs point.
But if they were raised in the word of God, that they will know by now that God said that those that are born of the Spirit, that they are not stuck to traditions. That they are being led by the Spirit. Not by traditions. There's no set patterns to follow, but only to do what is right in the sight of God. Jesus was feeding many people on the Sabbath. But In the laws that it said not to leave your homes to gather food for yourself. But Jesus had fed the people and he allowed his disciples to gather grains to eat also on the Sabbath. But the heads of the church judged them for doing that. But they were stuck in traditions that they will not feed someone on the Sabbath, but they will help to save a lamb that had fallen into a pit. A Righteous person is someone that whom chooses to do what is right. One of the main commands of God is to show love to one another. How can showing love for someone if you let them starve. All of the commands rest on those two. But the reason why no one doesn't know that? It is because no one has not been teaching the truth about the word. But now we has devils that are trying to keep people from knowing the knowledge of the truth.
John 3:8 The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.”
Matthew 15:2 “Why do your disciples break the tradition of the elders? They don’t wash their hands before they eat!” Jesus replied, “And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition?
Exodus 33:3 Go up to the land flowing with milk and honey. But I will not go with you, because you are a stiff-necked people and I might destroy you on the way.”