Question for Men: Feminine Women

[ChrisL]

I wonder why a good married "Christian" woman is making all kinds of "sexuality" threads. Why?

She's curious as to what others think.

What others think about what exactly? What they think is attractive? Why?

I'm guessing that she is just curious as to what men think and how their minds work when it comes to women, dating, and relationships. She also may be questioning herself about her own feelings and past experiences with men. She may tell you in a PM.

Well, as a married woman, it is extremely inappropriate according to her own religious beliefs. She is not supposed to be enticing other men (especially married ones) with talk about sex. According to other good married Christian women, that would make her a "harlot."

It could be "all in fun", and have no real intent or meaning. She may be just trying to get a conversation going. She may be enjoying her morning coffee and feels like talking. It could be any number of reasons. You and I can only guess the intent, motive(s), or genuine reason(s). She's probably just talkative this morning and figures relationships, sex, gender attraction, and the working of the male mind, are great conversation starters. .......... just guessing ........

I don't really care much about her intent. I am trying to make a point here about preachy Christians.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

One of the reasons I expect I like the old film-era porn best is natural breasts.

 

[Sonny Clark]

She's curious as to what others think.

What others think about what exactly? What they think is attractive? Why?

I'm guessing that she is just curious as to what men think and how their minds work when it comes to women, dating, and relationships. She also may be questioning herself about her own feelings and past experiences with men. She may tell you in a PM.

Well, as a married woman, it is extremely inappropriate according to her own religious beliefs. She is not supposed to be enticing other men (especially married ones) with talk about sex. According to other good married Christian women, that would make her a "harlot."

It could be "all in fun", and have no real intent or meaning. She may be just trying to get a conversation going. She may be enjoying her morning coffee and feels like talking. It could be any number of reasons. You and I can only guess the intent, motive(s), or genuine reason(s). She's probably just talkative this morning and figures relationships, sex, gender attraction, and the working of the male mind, are great conversation starters. .......... just guessing ........

I don't really care much about her intent. I am trying to make a point here about preachy Christians.

I understand. Sorry, I don't have the answer to the questions. I'm just guessing about it. I really don't know. She may tell you and explain it to you.

 

[ChrisL]

One of the reasons I expect I like the old film-era porn best is natural breasts.

Well, men do like to play with balls. Their own are only like the size of golf balls, so maybe some of them like women to have huge beach balls to play with?

 

[ChrisL]

What others think about what exactly? What they think is attractive? Why?

I'm guessing that she is just curious as to what men think and how their minds work when it comes to women, dating, and relationships. She also may be questioning herself about her own feelings and past experiences with men. She may tell you in a PM.

Well, as a married woman, it is extremely inappropriate according to her own religious beliefs. She is not supposed to be enticing other men (especially married ones) with talk about sex. According to other good married Christian women, that would make her a "harlot."

It could be "all in fun", and have no real intent or meaning. She may be just trying to get a conversation going. She may be enjoying her morning coffee and feels like talking. It could be any number of reasons. You and I can only guess the intent, motive(s), or genuine reason(s). She's probably just talkative this morning and figures relationships, sex, gender attraction, and the working of the male mind, are great conversation starters. .......... just guessing ........

I don't really care much about her intent. I am trying to make a point here about preachy Christians.

I understand. Sorry, I don't have the answer to the questions. I'm just guessing about it. I really don't know. She may tell you and explain it to you.

She's trying to get a rise out of the men, obviously. Everyone knows that "attraction" is in the eye of the beholder, and a 51-year-old woman is very aware of exactly what it is that she is doing.

 

[Moonglow]

She's curious as to what others think.

What others think about what exactly? What they think is attractive? Why?

I'm guessing that she is just curious as to what men think and how their minds work when it comes to women, dating, and relationships. She also may be questioning herself about her own feelings and past experiences with men. She may tell you in a PM.

Well, as a married woman, it is extremely inappropriate according to her own religious beliefs. She is not supposed to be enticing other men (especially married ones) with talk about sex. According to other good married Christian women, that would make her a "harlot."

It could be "all in fun", and have no real intent or meaning. She may be just trying to get a conversation going. She may be enjoying her morning coffee and feels like talking. It could be any number of reasons. You and I can only guess the intent, motive(s), or genuine reason(s). She's probably just talkative this morning and figures relationships, sex, gender attraction, and the working of the male mind, are great conversation starters. .......... just guessing ........

I don't really care much about her intent. I am trying to make a point here about preachy Christians.

Good luck, what evah they do it okay....or at least forgivable..

 

[Moonglow]

One of the reasons I expect I like the old film-era porn best is natural breasts.

Old era, they've had breast implants since the 1970's, My Mom was one of the first to get them....

 

[ChrisL]

What others think about what exactly? What they think is attractive? Why?

I'm guessing that she is just curious as to what men think and how their minds work when it comes to women, dating, and relationships. She also may be questioning herself about her own feelings and past experiences with men. She may tell you in a PM.

Well, as a married woman, it is extremely inappropriate according to her own religious beliefs. She is not supposed to be enticing other men (especially married ones) with talk about sex. According to other good married Christian women, that would make her a "harlot."

It could be "all in fun", and have no real intent or meaning. She may be just trying to get a conversation going. She may be enjoying her morning coffee and feels like talking. It could be any number of reasons. You and I can only guess the intent, motive(s), or genuine reason(s). She's probably just talkative this morning and figures relationships, sex, gender attraction, and the working of the male mind, are great conversation starters. .......... just guessing ........

I don't really care much about her intent. I am trying to make a point here about preachy Christians.

Good luck, what evah they do it okay....or at least forgivable..

Point being, Christians are no less "sinners" than the gay couple down the street that they like to look down upon as lesser humans. Christians sin and damn well know what they are doing, but they can just cop out on owning it because they can "repent" to their god at the end of the day, only to do it again the next day. This is one of the things I find most annoying about religious folks.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

One of the reasons I expect I like the old film-era porn best is natural breasts.

Well, men do like to play with balls. Their own are only like the size of golf balls, so maybe some of them like women to have huge beach balls to play with?

If they're that big I'd suggest seeing a doc. Might have testicular cancer.

 

[ChrisL]

One of the reasons I expect I like the old film-era porn best is natural breasts.

Well, men do like to play with balls. Their own are only like the size of golf balls, so maybe some of them like women to have huge beach balls to play with?

If they're that big I'd suggest seeing a doc. Might have testicular cancer.

Okay, well I'm trying to compare them to some kind of balls. Those were the smallest balls I could think of. Lol.

 

[ChrisL]

One of the reasons I expect I like the old film-era porn best is natural breasts.

Well, men do like to play with balls. Their own are only like the size of golf balls, so maybe some of them like women to have huge beach balls to play with?

If they're that big I'd suggest seeing a doc. Might have testicular cancer.

Not many women have breasts the size of beach balls either. I would imagine that would be quite uncomfortable and limit your mobility a great deal.

 

[Sonny Clark]

I'm guessing that she is just curious as to what men think and how their minds work when it comes to women, dating, and relationships. She also may be questioning herself about her own feelings and past experiences with men. She may tell you in a PM.

Well, as a married woman, it is extremely inappropriate according to her own religious beliefs. She is not supposed to be enticing other men (especially married ones) with talk about sex. According to other good married Christian women, that would make her a "harlot."

It could be "all in fun", and have no real intent or meaning. She may be just trying to get a conversation going. She may be enjoying her morning coffee and feels like talking. It could be any number of reasons. You and I can only guess the intent, motive(s), or genuine reason(s). She's probably just talkative this morning and figures relationships, sex, gender attraction, and the working of the male mind, are great conversation starters. .......... just guessing ........

I don't really care much about her intent. I am trying to make a point here about preachy Christians.

I understand. Sorry, I don't have the answer to the questions. I'm just guessing about it. I really don't know. She may tell you and explain it to you.

She's trying to get a rise out of the men, obviously. Everyone knows that "attraction" is in the eye of the beholder, and a 51-year-old woman is very aware of exactly what it is that she is doing.

Well, at 51 years of age, one would think that all of the questions about men and relationships, would've already been answered through experience. But, I have no idea as to what has taken place in her life. Some have "lived" very little until they reach the golden years. I know of one such woman. It's rare, but it does happen. One thing about the people you meet on the internet, it's difficult to actually know them, unless they open up as I have done, and continue to do. I have no secrets. Most people are protective of their personal life, and reveal only what they feel comfortable revealing. In most cases, we have to read between the lines to get a picture of what people are really like.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

One of the reasons I expect I like the old film-era porn best is natural breasts.

Old era, they've had breast implants since the 1970's, My Mom was one of the first to get them....

Was gonna ask/make a joke, but dunno how the no-family rule thing would effect it

 

[ChrisL]

Well, as a married woman, it is extremely inappropriate according to her own religious beliefs. She is not supposed to be enticing other men (especially married ones) with talk about sex. According to other good married Christian women, that would make her a "harlot."

It could be "all in fun", and have no real intent or meaning. She may be just trying to get a conversation going. She may be enjoying her morning coffee and feels like talking. It could be any number of reasons. You and I can only guess the intent, motive(s), or genuine reason(s). She's probably just talkative this morning and figures relationships, sex, gender attraction, and the working of the male mind, are great conversation starters. .......... just guessing ........

I don't really care much about her intent. I am trying to make a point here about preachy Christians.

I understand. Sorry, I don't have the answer to the questions. I'm just guessing about it. I really don't know. She may tell you and explain it to you.

She's trying to get a rise out of the men, obviously. Everyone knows that "attraction" is in the eye of the beholder, and a 51-year-old woman is very aware of exactly what it is that she is doing.

Well, at 51 years of age, one would think that all of the questions about men and relationships, would've already been answered through experience. But, I have no idea as to what has taken place in her life. Some have "lived" very little until they reach the golden years. I know of one such woman. It's rare, but it does happen. One thing about the people you meet on the internet, it's difficult to actually know them, unless they open up as I have done, and continue to do. I have no secrets. Most people are protective of their personal life, and reveal only what they feel comfortable revealing. In most cases, we have to read between the lines to get a picture of what people are really like.

Doesn't stop them from calling out others as "sinners" though, does it? I like Bonzi. I am just pointing out her religious hypocrisy. She knows her religion well enough to know the rules, right?

 

[rightwinger]

Overly concerned about appearance is too shallow

I prefer the girl next door

 

[Sonny Clark]

I'm guessing that she is just curious as to what men think and how their minds work when it comes to women, dating, and relationships. She also may be questioning herself about her own feelings and past experiences with men. She may tell you in a PM.

Well, as a married woman, it is extremely inappropriate according to her own religious beliefs. She is not supposed to be enticing other men (especially married ones) with talk about sex. According to other good married Christian women, that would make her a "harlot."

It could be "all in fun", and have no real intent or meaning. She may be just trying to get a conversation going. She may be enjoying her morning coffee and feels like talking. It could be any number of reasons. You and I can only guess the intent, motive(s), or genuine reason(s). She's probably just talkative this morning and figures relationships, sex, gender attraction, and the working of the male mind, are great conversation starters. .......... just guessing ........

I don't really care much about her intent. I am trying to make a point here about preachy Christians.

Good luck, what evah they do it okay....or at least forgivable..

Point being, Christians are no less "sinners" than the gay couple down the street that they like to look down upon as lesser humans. Christians sin and damn well know what they are doing, but they can just cop out on owning it because they can "repent" to their god at the end of the day, only to do it again the next day. This is one of the things I find most annoying about religious folks.

Yes, we're all sinners, and have fallen short of the glory of the lord, as the written word tells us. Yes, we sin, and yes, we ask for forgiveness. I'm guilty of sin, and ask for forgiveness. It is impossible to be in the flesh and not sin. We're born sinners. As Jesus said, "there is none good except my father in heaven". We are not perfect, and we all do our share of dirt. The point is, sin is forgiven. But, to pretend that you are clean and never sin, is a sin in itself.

 

[ChrisL]

Well, as a married woman, it is extremely inappropriate according to her own religious beliefs. She is not supposed to be enticing other men (especially married ones) with talk about sex. According to other good married Christian women, that would make her a "harlot."

It could be "all in fun", and have no real intent or meaning. She may be just trying to get a conversation going. She may be enjoying her morning coffee and feels like talking. It could be any number of reasons. You and I can only guess the intent, motive(s), or genuine reason(s). She's probably just talkative this morning and figures relationships, sex, gender attraction, and the working of the male mind, are great conversation starters. .......... just guessing ........

I don't really care much about her intent. I am trying to make a point here about preachy Christians.

Good luck, what evah they do it okay....or at least forgivable..

Point being, Christians are no less "sinners" than the gay couple down the street that they like to look down upon as lesser humans. Christians sin and damn well know what they are doing, but they can just cop out on owning it because they can "repent" to their god at the end of the day, only to do it again the next day. This is one of the things I find most annoying about religious folks.

Yes, we're all sinners, and have fallen short of the glory of the lord, as the written word tells us. Yes, we sin, and yes, we ask for forgiveness. I'm guilty of sin, and ask for forgiveness. It is impossible to be in the flesh and not sin. We're born sinners. As Jesus said, "there is none good except my father in heaven". We are not perfect, and we all do our share of dirt. The point is, sin is forgiven. But, to pretend that you are clean and never sin, is a sin in itself.

Well, I'm sorry, and no offense intended, but I am highly doubtful to begin with that any gods came out of the sky to give us rules to live by. If there is a higher power, it is not communicating with us.

 

[danielpalos]

Is it important to you for your woman to be "feminine"?

Meaning, having polished nails, make up just right, grossed out by crude jokes, etc.
Is it a turn off for a girl to like sports, tell crude jokes, burp and fart? Is that a "deal breaker"?

No. My view of feminine does not require nail polish or make up; but a feminine attitude.

 

[Moonglow]

Well, as a married woman, it is extremely inappropriate according to her own religious beliefs. She is not supposed to be enticing other men (especially married ones) with talk about sex. According to other good married Christian women, that would make her a "harlot."

It could be "all in fun", and have no real intent or meaning. She may be just trying to get a conversation going. She may be enjoying her morning coffee and feels like talking. It could be any number of reasons. You and I can only guess the intent, motive(s), or genuine reason(s). She's probably just talkative this morning and figures relationships, sex, gender attraction, and the working of the male mind, are great conversation starters. .......... just guessing ........

I don't really care much about her intent. I am trying to make a point here about preachy Christians.

Good luck, what evah they do it okay....or at least forgivable..

Point being, Christians are no less "sinners" than the gay couple down the street that they like to look down upon as lesser humans. Christians sin and damn well know what they are doing, but they can just cop out on owning it because they can "repent" to their god at the end of the day, only to do it again the next day. This is one of the things I find most annoying about religious folks.

Yes, we're all sinners, and have fallen short of the glory of the lord, as the written word tells us. Yes, we sin, and yes, we ask for forgiveness. I'm guilty of sin, and ask for forgiveness. It is impossible to be in the flesh and not sin. We're born sinners. As Jesus said, "there is none good except my father in heaven". We are not perfect, and we all do our share of dirt. The point is, sin is forgiven. But, to pretend that you are clean and never sin, is a sin in itself.

What isn't a sin?

 

[ChrisL]

Overly concerned about appearance is too shallow

I prefer the girl next door

Well see, this is a tough one for us. We are expected to always be looking our best. Men and women comment if we are not always looking our best. I don't have a problem with my femininity. I actually like doing my hair and putting on makeup and clothes and shoes and accessories, blah, blah, blah. I don't know if it is because that is how I was conditioned, or if I really DO like it. I know this much . . . I would not leave the house looking like crap. As a woman, you just feel better when you look good.